if his friends found out that his girlfriend wouldn't have sex with him before marriage and he was willing to wait? What would you think if it was your friend? Would you think that he was a sucker for not trying to have sex with her and tease him about it?
2006-11-22 08:23:37 · 28 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a girl answering this question. BUT I think it takes a REAL man to stand by his principles no matter what his friends think.
2006-11-22 08:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by luv3dbb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, holding out is kind of passe', but to each their own. And that is the advice I am giving here: Don't let others try and influence what you consider to be the correct thing to do. If he truly loves you, and you him, then waiting to have sex shouldn't be that bad. Sex is not always the only way to express love. Gentle carressing, using your hands, kissing etc.... are all ways to show love and passion, and still get the pleasure that you both desire. Even though his friends may tease him, he will know that you are both satisfied, and that should be enough.
2006-11-22 16:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust me that girl would be a very stupid and she can love the guy if shes willing to do that and if the guys friend is willing to do that shes not a friend just a 2 face person and really it doesnt mean that hes saying that his friend is a sucker hes just nasty
2006-11-22 16:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by roxylue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for some guys who think they are all that and a bag of chips then yea it will be ego crushing, but if a guy really likes his girlfriend then he should wait until marriage for sex no matter what his friends say, if my friend said he was waiting until marriage then i wouldnt care
2006-11-22 16:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by the_doc2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. My friends no how much I like to rub one out anyways. A girlfriend not having sex with me would not be a problem - once I find a girlfriend.
2006-11-22 16:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't hurt his ego. Not really. But yea, all the guys would tease him.
If you've already lost your virginity and you're not doing it for religious reasons then why not give him some sugar?
2006-11-22 16:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not my job to judge my friend's sex life (or lack of sex life) and not their job to judge mine.
i personally have great admiration and respect for women that are saving themselves for marriage.. i wish more women were like that.
the other issue, the sexual history (or lack of sexual history) of any of my past girlfriends is personal and is not something i would tell my friends about.. it is none of their business.
also keep in mind, if you are considering dating a guy, you don't necessarily have to tell him if you are a virgin or not if you don't want to. if he bugs you for sex, just say that you are not ready yet..
sexual history (or lack of sexual history) is a very personal thing, and nobody should ever feel forced to share details with anyone they don't want to.
2006-11-22 18:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is all about where you go with it.
If that's what they want to do, and they're tight the suckers could be the friends playing around.
2006-11-22 16:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by smiling is cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it was kind of weird.
I would try not to tease him or suggest that it might not fit or something.
2006-11-22 16:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tease him just around the fellas but at the same time if he lets what his friends think effect his action he is a sucka and you dont want him anyway
2006-11-22 16:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋