okay I met this guy he sounds very nice but I m just not sure if he is ready for a series relationship. been true a lot on my life And lot of break ups .and heart breaking I don't want to do it again.from my second days with him. I felt that hes a good guy.I really likes him. but Iam scared a gain e doesn't have en experience with girls in fact he told me he never had a GF. I fell like he just want to get tget the expereance from me and leave me. I told him. that I want to waite utile marride to have sex. he seems OKay but. he maybe will give up and go like others did. what should I do. should I keep it with him or move on. but with who. evryone want sex.by the way . IAm 21 hes 23. what should I do. my mom want to take me out of the country so I can get marride with someone I dont know. like she did. I dont want to do that. she told me that Iam old enough to get marride. and have kidz. I dont know what to do. if I dont do that. what should I do??!!!!
2006-11-22 08:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me if I dont fo what she wants . she will kiked me out. in fact the apartment is under my name, and I have a good job. so I can leave in my own. but she always came in my way. I know she is my mothere. I love her but . its my life.??!!
2006-11-22 08:07:01 · update #1
Maybe you should wait it out with him see what HIS real intentions are.......but.....
DOnt GET MARRIED....your 21 ENjoy yourself date boys have fun!!! Life is TOO short to ruin it on sumthing that is not your dream...do what u want to do more than anything in this life SKy is the limit girl.....dont worry about em ALL most guys want IS sex.....one day I promise You'll meet someone you will know is the one for you till then dont stress out about them.... Good luck and let me know how it goes!
2006-11-22 08:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
i dont know all that much about your way of life, but it sounds like you really should get the hell out of there and start from the begginning. do nothing untill you are ready to. do nothing you feel you are doing to please someone else, including your mom. you are a big girl, you are 23, you can take care of yourself, like you said you have a good job. it is now or never, and if you dont take any chances you will never get anywhere.
2006-11-22 08:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him untill you feel it's the right time to date him, as of marriage, give it alot of time, don't rush into it,-you're only 21. (-I'm 36 & I'm still not ready for marriage, it will change my life, & I don't wanna make that mistake, neither do you....)
2006-11-22 08:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand wehat you are going through but you don't have to have sex with everyboy you meet. You can just be friends and if you really like him ..give him a shot.
2006-11-22 08:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by babycrystal12195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing him mor is better. don't trust earlier. it's too early to decide a man nor a woman. most of the men are liar than women. take note i am a man and i know what man's tricks. be careful of the tricks girl.
2006-11-22 08:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to communicate about it, you need to bring put all yours cards on the table and he needs to be serious and honest about his intentions. Ask him nicely and tell him that you need to be sure about what you both want before you continue.
2006-11-22 08:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋