should i tell him?

Question

saturday i am goin to the movies with 3 of my friends n there bf n am goin with my bf 2. but on of my friends bf is my ex bf n my bf dont like him at all cuz he tried to start talkin to me a few months ago n they got n dis big fight . well neither 1 of them kno wat each other look like so should i just go n dont tell im that its him or should i tell him that he is goin? if i tell him dat he is goin he will prob get mad n not wanna go but i do wanna go so wat should i do?

Answer 1

bad idea, i mean they had a fight

if u wanna go that bad u should tell him that yur ex will b there but how irrelevant he is.

Answer 2

I think you should definitely tell your boyfriend. What's a relationship with lies, or half truths? Also, think about if you were in his shoes. Wouldn't you want someone to do something like that to you? I think that it's wrong that he has a big problem with you talking to your ex, however. Unless you've had a history of cheating on current boyfriends with your ex's or something like that, he should have no reason to have problems with it. He seems to be just jealous, and you should talk to him about it. As long as you and your ex are nothing more than friends at this point, then you boyfriend shouldn't need to care so much. That's just my personal opnion... If you tell him and he does decide to go to the movies anyways, just try to focus more on him than your ex. Make sure you sit by him and maybe one of your other friend. Just try to show your boyfriend that your ex is only your ex and that your boyfriend is your boyfriend. That might help him with his jealousy, if that's what's bugging him about your ex talking to you.

Answer 3

I think you should tell your bf (by the way bff is better for best friends and bf for boyfriend, makes it simpler to understand). Imagine what will happen when he finds out, whether it be at the date or later. It's probably best to tell him.

Good Luck !

Answer 4

Be honest. Something like that is going to come out eventually. Your ex may make a point of referencing it, and then you'd be in a realy ackward situation, right? Just tell him. It's not like you want to dump him and be with your ex.

Answer 5

You really need to tell him. He deserves to know. And if he doesnt want to go becuase of it, thats OK! He might feel alittle uncomftorable or akward. But you should be honest and tell him. becuase if he finds out later that you didnt tell him, he could get even more mad then if you just tell him. He will be happy that your honest and straight forward with him.

Answer 6

You need to be honest and tell him. Surprising him and being a possibility of another fight or argument is what you need to avoid. Just be honest and tell him what's going on.

Answer 7

tell him don't keep secerts. (thats very bad) Tell him and then say i would like you there and let him know that the outer guy has nothing on him and theres a reason why he the ex and he still your bf.

Answer 8

well if they dont know each other and have never seen each other - what he doesnt know wont hurt him , right? yes you are being dishonest in a way but if you are going to feel awkward about it why dont you skip the whole date

Answer 9

yes,you should tell him. if you don't ,and he finds out, he will be even more upset. just reassure him you guys will have fun,and not to worry about him. in the mean time,ask your freind to mention something to her b.f. so HE doesn't freak out either. hope it works out!!! :-)

Answer 10

First off, you need to learn how to type correctly. Second, you need to tell your boyfriend.