everyone is telling me that my boyfriend is not right for me. they say he is a player, but the thing is i don't see it. ( i just start going to this school n he was the first guy i have my eyes on. he told me how much he like me n blah blah blah then we start going out. he is on both the basketball n football team so we don't spend that much time with eachother. i don't want to pressure him to much bcause his mom as past away n i know how hard it is for him) but still i don't feel right n i don't know if i should believe what people say or not. WHAT SHOULD I DO, SHOULD I DUMP HIM. ( I LOVE HIM )
2006-11-22 07:46:34 · 19 answers · asked by angel16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make. Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that. Give it some time & see where it goes.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 07:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think seeing as How he came up to u first sounds like sumthing a young H.S. "player" boy would do...I think you need to listen to them THe only reason why U dont see it is cuz U dont really know him and I bet the way he talks to u is just SO SWEET! See what other boys are out there dont just attach urself to one especially since your new..have fun...be cute...and make the boys drool over YOU.....Good LUCK!
2006-11-22 07:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your choice, since you are on here, something is bothering you about him..I have a neice in the same place is with a dud, self centered ,, plain no good...She cannot see, and will not see. Talk to him you will have to make the decision your self..but don't take anything but what you are satisfied with............
2006-11-22 07:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.. talk to him and let him know that you want to spend more time with him.
Second- Dont do what everyone says!!!
Third of all- there are tons of guys out there
Fourth- Follow your heart!!! :) good luck
2006-11-22 07:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have caught one of the best looking guys around and everyone else is jealous, you decide for yourself and if it doesn,t work out chalk it up to experience good luck sweetheart
2006-11-22 07:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to take a step back from this guy and really pay attention.
Talk to him and ask him some hard questions and demand answers.
You're in control.
2006-11-22 07:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a school relationship (it sounds like it) you may have problems dating a popular and athletic guy. if you can't handle it (that would drive me crazy) then end it before you get hurt. i'm not saying he will hurt you but when you are young, real relationships are hard to deal with.
2006-11-22 07:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by morequestions 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always talk, no matter what. Here's what I say: Unless you see something suspicious with your own eyes, keep dating him and brush off the haters!
2006-11-22 07:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There telling you to dump him because he did something behind your back, and it easier to tell you to dump him, than to tell you what he did behind your back, know what I mean, if one person is telling you to dump him, I would be cautious, if more than one person is telling you, then get rid of him, he did something
2006-11-22 07:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's your choice but when a close friend tells you he is a player, they usually would not lie to you.and it's time to dump his butt. if its just general gossip make your own mind up.
2006-11-22 07:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by gameface_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋