how do i get over my dog dieing?

Question

well she got hit by a car and well like half my family saw it and whe we went to the vet on the way there i was the one who had to hold her down and blood was comeing out of her mouth b/c she had a concushion it was so sad but that wasent the sad part the sad part was letting go forever and never seeing her again and i dont really know how to explain how i feel. noone relly knows how i really feel b/c i am afraid to say how i feel b/c it will make everyone so sad!!!!!

Answer 1

When the horrible memories of that day come up..just command them aside, and remember the very best of times with your dog..

Yes, we do know how you are feeling.. Losing a beloved pet is devastating! as they are family members..But, if you keep the good memories alive, she will forever live in your heart, and be very near when you beckon her to come..Love does not die..she will be forever with you..

Here is a great site to help you cope.. You will not feel so alone> http://www.pet-loss.net/

Rainbow bridge> http://www.petloss.com/

Answer 2

Aww, poor dog, it never made it throgh it's happy life. Since you remember it, then, I guess thatyou are a wonderful and caring owner. I feel really sorry for you, here are some ways to get over it more quickly. (I know what it's like to lose a friend, like a pet dog, but, time heals everything) Not all of these will work out for you, so, that's why I gave you many choices.

(1) buy a new dog and make it look just about the same as your previous dog that died. You shouldn't name it after your old dog or else you'll still feel sad.

(2) if you have still have any of the dog's toys or other stuff, then keep them in a locked up tresure chest and if you or your mom start to feel sad again, then get the key and open the chest. Then you and your mom can look at the stuff in the box and it'll bring back many good memories of your dog. When you look at them, you shouldn't start to cry even more, you should just feel happier.

(3) dream about it being by your side looking into your eyes or licking your hands. Dreaming about it will make you feel more happy because then you will know that doesn't matter what, it'll always be by your side if it's gone or if it's somewhere else.

(4) think of a happy place or your favorite food and all the pressure will go away.

Answer 3

With any loss, it is hard, you cant just pretend it didnt happen and never think about it again, its not healthy. Everyone deals with grief differently. Right now its just important that you go on with your day as you normally would, there WILL be little reminders or your dog everywhere for the first few months or weeks, but you have to remember, that it was an accident and it couldn't have been prevented, but your dog is in a better place. And when you think back about the dog, dont think about its last moments, in that horrible car ride to the vet, remember all the fun you had with it, the games that you played, the places you took her. It will get easier as time goes on.

Answer 4

It's always hard getting over something like that. Honestly you don't have to get over it, you just need to accept it. Don't try to stop thinking about her, just try thinking about her in a different way. Remember how much you loved her and how much joy she gave you. This may make you sad but it's better than thinking about her death. Try putting together a box or pictures in memory of her. Eventually you will be able to accept her death. If your family will let you, you can get another dog. Of course you won't be able to "replace" your old dog, but a new dog might be able to take some of the pain away. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope you feel better

Answer 5

What a terrible thing to have happen. It will be hard for awhile, but I think it's important for you to talk about it. You might be surprised that other people are feeling as badly as you are over the death and it may be a great relief for all of you to talk about it. When my pets die, and thankfully from old age and nothing as traumatic as an accident, I try to remember that I provided a good life for them and they were happy when they were with me. Then I think of the fact that now my home is open to take in another homeless animal and provide it with a good life. And if you want to cry, then CRY! It was a tragedy.

Answer 6

honey, first i want to tell you im so sorry. my dog died in my arms too a while ago.
please dong be afraid to say how you feel. other people probably would like to hear about it, because they probably feel the xact same way you do, and they would like to know that they are not alone, wouldnt you?

its very sudden and tragic to have a beloved pet hit by a car and taken away so fast from you. it sounds like you really loved her and she probably had the best life ever.
i know its sad to think you will not see her in this life anymore and theres nothing anyone can say that will take away that feeling of emptiness and sadness. but you have to know that you gave her the best care and life she could have asked for. give it lots of time, and please talk about it with your family. it will only help you feel better to get all those heavy feelings out of you.

god bless you and i know you will be ok.

Answer 7

You won't ever get over it but you will be able to deal with the pain easier as time goes by. To help ease the pain do something in her memory that will also keep you busy. Try volunteering at the local animal shelter or with a rescue group. You will be able to love on other dogs while helping save their lives and you will feel good about yourself while you make a difference.

Answer 8

I'm sorry! Honestly, I don't think anything will help but time. You'll always be sad, and always miss her, but time will soften the blow. For now, why don't you write about her in a little journal? Or find some photos of her and put it in a little album for you to look through when you need to. I wouldn't advise getting a new puppy too quickly though. I doubt you want a replacement, but after time, maybe you'll want a new puppy with a new future to spend with you. Take care! You gave you're dog a wonderful spoiled life and I'm sure she appreciated it!

Answer 9

I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. What a tradgic story. Unfortunately, IMO, I think that the grieving process for a dog is much like that of a person. It takes time to heal these things, as unfair as that may be. Hang in there, and remember the happy times that you had with your pup.

I have a favorite poem that is perfect for you. I hope this helps you a little:

HEAVEN'S DOGGY-DOOR

My best friend closed his eyes last night,
As his head was in my hand.
The Doctors said he was in pain,
And it was hard for him to stand.

The thoughts that scurried through my head,
As I cradled him in my arms.
Were of his younger, puppy years,
And OH...his many charms.

Today, there was no gentle nudge
With an intense "I love you gaze",
Only a heart that's filled with tears
Remembering our joy filled days.

But an Angel just appeared to me,
And he said, "You should cry no more,
GOD also loves our canine friends,
HE's installed a 'doggy-door"!

-Jan Cooper '95

Answer 10

my kitten got hit by a car 5 weeks ago and her eyeballs popped out and the worst thing was that she was stilll alive for like 2 minutes but thank god i wasnt there

i still feel really bad and the first week i was crying the whole time but after awhile you kind of realize that its what god wanted and their are people dying everyday and im crying for a kitten. Even though i loved her and i always remeber playing with her i think about the people and that life goes on