Why can't u make up Ur mind 4 god sake???

Question

I Just don't like being around people who can't make up there minds about anything.. It makes me mad and stressed. I have a friend who can never ever make a decision about the simplest things in like.. she needs my opnion about everything.. Im sick and tired of baby sitting her all the time.. she is an adult... I finally told her I can't put up with this.. And now all of sudden Im the bad one here.. I don't mind being the bad one here .. I simply can't go on like this. How do I deal with this lady ??.. she is my friend after all .. Althought in my heart I believe there is no cure for this PROBLEM

Answer 1

Welcome to the world of friendship, it is not easy but that is what friends are for, if your friend keeps asking your opinion then she values your opinion that's all, it does get a bit stressful and if you choose not to give your opinion let her know that she is the one that has to decide for her self and you can't always be available when she has a decision to make.

Answer 2

i would need some specifics to really say anything useful to that.

Sometimes its worth making a decision. Sometimes just kind of waiting, collecting data is best. When it gets to 90% worth it then jump I figure.

Answer 3

there is cure, but she needs to raelise it herself, just stay away for a while

Answer 4

Perhaps she's afraid of something and you could try being compassionate?

Answer 5

send her to a shrink

Answer 6

every time she asks your opinon, retort with, 'what do you think?'

Answer 7

say i dunno, or um maybe, she'll learn to trust her own instinct,