I met this guy and we went out on a date and really hit it off. We had a date on Thursday, saw eachother that same Friday, Saturday and Sunday. We had really good conversation, laughed alot, kissed a lot, but we didn't have sex. He was telling me how much he likes me, how much he likes being around me and stuff like that. For the Thanksgiving Holiday, he said he was going to San Diego with his mom and sister for 8 days but that he would call me everyday. It's Wednesday now, so far, he only called once, on Monday. I called his phone yesterday, Tuesday and for most of the day it was turned off and going directly to voicemail. And then later it was turned on but he didn't answer.
What is his deal? Just not that into me?
2006-11-22 07:29:32 · 6 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP WORRYING SO MUCH. Hes with his family, let him be with them, just cause you havent talked to him since monday dosent mean hes not into you, but i will say, if you keep bugging the hell out of him, he wont be into you, give him the time with his family, and later he'll give you his time. call him one time today, if no answer, leave a message, saying just wondering how you are, and how your trips going, hope your having a good time, call me back when you get a chance. just a nice relax message, but if he dosent call dont freak out, and just wait til he gets back. thats all i can say, so stop being paranoid
2006-11-22 07:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a break for a while. He's probably spending time with his family. Plus, if he's like most guys, they don't like the phone anyway & leave it in bizarre places. I understand what it is to be twitterpated, but you've got to calm down & relax. If you continue to call his phone, he will think you are psycho & never call again. Just play it cool.
2006-11-22 15:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's most likely into you, but ya'll ain't together, so he's not really having to respond. Also, you said he's in San Diego, so he could be really having a good time with his fam. But he wants to get with ya, from what you said.
2006-11-22 15:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing games with you. you have 2 options. dump him or play games back with him. ignore him. wait for him to call you. then don't be available. or be available but for only 5 minutes and tell him you will call him back...but never call him back. let him call you back. if he asks what happened tell him you got busy and forgot to call him. u went out with friends. get the picture? Some men like to chase. let him chase. give him a challenge.
2006-11-22 15:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jucee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't press it girl. You just started out. Act like you don't care and find things to keep you busy. Let him wonder what YOU are doing and your phone should get the rings
2006-11-22 15:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be just spending time with his family.
2006-11-22 15:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by sunslover_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋