its been 1 year im in relation with the guy...he cares n all that stuff..but sometimes when im emotionally upset n needs someones shoulder to cry on..i feel he try to change the topic..like he dont wana hear emotional stuff n he dont even say some few words that makes me lil better..why is he doing that?
2006-11-22 07:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by zoya 7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, like most guys, he does not know what to say? If he says one thing, you will go off with something else, he doesn't know how to comfort you and doesn't want to hurt you with his words? Sorry I couldn't help more.
2006-11-22 07:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are not good with emotion. Most of them don't show their emotions so they don't know what to do when their gf shows deep emotions. Try talking to him and saying how you feel about this. Tell him that when you are upset, that he should hear you out and try to help you and not to change the topic. Good luck. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-22 07:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he probably doesn't really care. but maybe he does and he doesn't like to show it.
2006-11-22 07:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋