My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months. For some reason i think he is cheating on me. He goes out all the time with these 2 girls and at first it wasnt a big deal but when he started coming home late and not ever calling me. Never making time for me thats when i started to worry.Not to mention the fact that im not aloud to hangout with guys without him. Am i just being to protective or do you think he is cheating. I have no idea what to do. Please help.
2006-11-22 07:26:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's up to something, tell him how you feel and even suggest going along with him when he goes out its only fair since he has to be with you when you go out with guys....
2006-11-22 07:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a new boyfriend regardless of whether or not he's cheating. If you are not "allowed" to do things like hang out with friends, he's crossed a line where he's too possesive anyways. Overly controlling people who don't live up to the same expectations that they have of you are dangerous.
2006-11-22 15:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating!
Dump him and fast! Do not let him guilt you into thinking you are being too protective or clingy. I know it is sooo hard to cliche, but there are more guys out there and you should never waste your time on one who makes you feel the way you are feeling right now!
Get your chin up, stick up for yourself, and remember you are worth more than that.
2006-11-22 16:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by jrnwy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the cheating began when he was first with the 2 girls. if your suspecting something there must be something going on. about what you said that your not able to spend time with guys because he says you cant i personally think thats a little controlling. talk to him about it.(about him and the cheating)
2006-11-22 15:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with so many cheater its not funny, My motto is if you have a feeling then he is.. I was with a guy for 7 years, heard rumors after rumors, not wanted to believe them, Then When I finally called it off, He started to date the sluts that i had specious about, he is now with the main slut I thought he was doing the whole 7 years, goes to show you.... And if he is hang with the girls, he may not be doing one of them but one of there friends or he is gay.. My guest he is....
2006-11-22 15:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by TIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this sounds like my EX to be honest. He was always out til all hours of the night and he was going out with girls that he worked with.. ect. Sometimes he wouldnt even come home at all. He wouldnt answer my calls or anything.He would hind his phone and turn if on silent...Well as time went on and I asked him about it.. he just got more mad and upset at me.. Finally he started talking on the phone to this one girl and started then coming home with hickies on his neck and stuff... and he blammed it on work.. lol. Long story short.. yes he was cheating and we are now divorced.. Good luck. If you need to talk--email me :)
2006-11-22 15:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to hang out with you, then he doesn't want YOU. Don't waist your pecious time on a boy who doesnt deserve you. If things feel wrong, I believe that they are. After 6 months you should be elated! Not worried that he is cheating.
Good Luck.
2006-11-22 15:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he is, he isn't being fair to you cause he goes out with other girls but you can't go out with other guys.
2006-11-22 15:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go out with him when he is with those girls? If he says sure to come along then hey go for it. If he says No way then tell him to kiss your pretty ***.goodbye...
2006-11-22 15:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH, SOUNDS LIKE HE IS DEFINATELY CHEATING... WHY IS HE GOING OUT WITH THESE 2 GIRLS WITHOUT YOU... SOUNDS LIKE HE CARES ABOUT THESE 2 GIRLS MORE THAN HE CARES ABOUT YOU IF HE CAN MAKE TIME FOR THEM AND NOT FOR YOU...
2006-11-22 15:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋