my boyfriend of nearly three years is treating me like dirt he wont take me out even to the cinema his excuse is that he is to tired but still he has time to go play darts on a monday night and go shooting at the weekends with his mates and he gets home from work till about 5' o clock but doesnt see me till about half 8 nearly 9 and then when i do see him he doesnt speak to me unless we are fighting!!! What should i do and how should i go about it
2006-11-22 07:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by pritty-girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two put so much into this relationship it sounds like especially if you been together for three years. Figure out what is bothering him it must be something. Sounds like he is pushing you away for reasons unknown. Sit down with him and try not to fight express your feeling and try to get him to do the same. IT WORKS MOST OF THE TIME. Hope everything works out.
2006-11-22 07:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breeds contempt. The thing I hate most in a relationship.
All I will say tho is make sure you didn't contribute to this in some way yourself. talk to him and tell him how you feel. Ask him if you've done something to deserve this situation. If he's vague then its no longer worth persueing. Alternatively he may just feel the same way and want you to jazz things up a bit too.
2006-11-22 15:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a two way street... 50-50... give & take. He sounds very selfish, and not worth your time you seem to be putting into the relationship. Break it off before it goes on any longer, and find someone who will treat you for who you really are... GREAT!
2006-11-22 15:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is seeing someone else, or wanting to. If he has time for everone else an not you, what does that tell you? I would say,,, don't call me,, don't come over to see me at 8,-9:oo, as hard as it is , you need to toughen up. Don't be a door mat for anyone.
2006-11-22 16:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like its just not there anymore. sometimes people grow apart. if you really think this guy is the best guy in the world and nothing better will ever come around then stay with him. but in this case it seems like you could do a lot better. Nobody deserves to be treated like crap. I think you should go your separate ways..
2006-11-22 15:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid! It's sounds like the flame went out a long time ago. Is he worth being this upset for?
2006-11-22 15:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by bessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not treating you right now it won't get any better later. Kick his sorry @$$ to the curb. You can do it. If you don't he'll continue to use you as a doormat. Your self-respect is at stake. Be strong. Get rid of him and get on with your life.
2006-11-22 15:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt listening after three years i dont think he will suddenly change his ways now unless you give him a wake up call. Or you need to ask yourself if he is not willing to change his ways are you going to be prepared to put up and shut up??
2006-11-22 15:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take a break dont see him for a while and see if he changes towards you if he doesn't go get yourself a good man who will take you out and appreciate you.
2006-11-22 15:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Irish eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to confront him now, what kind of husband would he be...You get the best treatment before marriage..Any body deserves better treaatment than that,,,man or woman..need to do some soul searching......
2006-11-22 15:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋