i wonder why we never seem to find the person we long for? i'm not thinking about Mr. Perfection, but a man you can really trust in everything. are they all married, maybe, or are we blind and have no idea where to look for them?
2006-11-22 07:23:18 · 31 answers · asked by monica06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi monica...being a guy i can understand ur feelin...most often evn i have asked this question to my self...where hv d gud gurls gone...lemme answer ur quest first...d answer to this lies in ur heart....there is a tale that good guys r like apples on the top of the tree..most gurls pick the rotten ones lyin down d grn cz they dnt wanna go up d tree n pick d best 1....
so d funda is u need to choose urself abt which guy is jst lukin for sex or which guy is really genuine...there might be things u wnt find in every guy...1 might be very gud lukin but yet violent inside...d other might be jst avg but he might be a gem at heart...but mostly gurls go for the bad ones cz they like d thrill of chasin sum1....when u get u want in life where is the thrill...
i am 27 but still lonely but hopin my love wld come sumday soon......i also hope d same for u...my best regards.......
2006-11-22 17:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because you're looking in the wrong place.
There are plenty of nice, good men out there. If you are out and a guy comes up to you and is more awkward than not, talk to him. He'll also be the one of those guys that may not have all the answers.
If you keep on going for Mr. Slick, guess what? You're going to keep on falling for the guys that can scam their way through things.
Women seem to want the "bad boys" cause they're exciting and then wonder why they can't find commitment.
2006-11-22 15:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that a LOT of women SAY they want a nice guy but they really don't. They really prefer the "bad boys." Face it, you get bored with the sweet guys after a few weeks, and start mackin' on the stud over in the corner wearing the beat up leather jacket, sporting a 3-day old beard and several tattoos. If he drinks too much and occasionally "smacks around his bit**" to keep her in line, all the better.
2006-11-22 15:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your expectation from a man? That's the question. Nice guys are available in society but it all depend what you want from them. If you trust yourself you will trust the guy also if you go by their outer looks you will not be able to judge them, you have to look inside the guy his honesty, love, respect & care for you and sincerity. Judge a guy how he behaves in the society is he rude or polite, openhearted or miser, thus you can make a opinion about him. If you find him ok proceed otherwise forget him.You will find guys all around you its you who have to pick them.
2006-11-23 00:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some girls dont give us or me the chance to show them how i realy am i m a man that anyone could trust and dont like to make girls feel like **** but other guy dont care about them i believe in this that you dont now what you have antill you loss it hey give a chance to some one probably that someone is that one dont think that the man you are looking for is going to come to you..........you should go and tray to look for him.
2006-11-22 15:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At nights i broken down and cried and sometimes i didn't know why . My loneliness was driving me insane.My broken heart feeling lonely . i knew everything heals in time But can time heal my lonely heart?But i did believe there is another lonely heart out there waiting for me.my soul mate , my best friend my only and one .Then i found him and i always thank god to have him in my life .
Now, I know there is a special warm home with him, And he is always with me ;When i need him,We share our love, and pass the fear.So there is nothing to worry about.
Love can’t be explained,and can’t be controlled , some times it hurts and some times it helps , Once day it’s warm , Next day it’s cold BUT I WANT TO HAVE HIS LOVE , am nothing with out loving him. am alive because am in love with the sweetest man in the world that i can trust him , and rely on him anytime in good and bad.
It is destiny , you will find your true love for sure.
2006-11-22 15:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I took the most perfect guy ever made. Snatched him right up 15 years ago and I'm never letting him go!!!
2006-11-22 15:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, their are a lot of men like this in the world, but we always seem to get overlooked ;o)
2006-11-22 15:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well......there are lots of them...u just need to identfy them.....it also depends on wht kind of a guy u r looking.....patience is the key of success......one fine day u will meet ur mr right...all the best...my best wishes for u that u will meet ur mr right
2006-11-23 04:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby im here. very long time looking for u only.. wr r u?. dont search for nice man.. bcoz money is d major role in d world.
so u wont get one.. u ll get one just adjust and njoy,,
2006-11-23 04:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Bravely D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋