Ok so my boyfriend birthday is comming up
And its around holiday season(Christmas) I have alot of people to give gifts and I have very little amount of money to spend.
I dont know if I should give him anything for his birthday.
My birthday was about 3-4 mounths ago and he hurt my feelings because he forgot it was my birthday.And he kept saying he will make it up and will give me somthing likw 2 mounths ago and he never got me anything.And I took the time out to remeber his birthday but im still hurt from him forgetting my birthday.So shoul i get him somthing ?Or should i give hime a happy birthday?
(its more than what he gave me)
2006-11-22 07:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe he did forget and that was messed up but you should be the bigger person about it... you could get him a crad or something it doesnt have to be big...
2006-11-22 07:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is....why are you still with this loser? I've had something simiiar happen to me....the 'forgetting my birthday' trick and it was hard to accept that there would never be an occasion special enough to warrant him getting excited about it and/or planning a celebration. The guy you're dating sounds just as selfish. You have the option of breaking up with him before the holidays you know and then it wouldn't be a problem 'forgetting his birthday.' You could start the new year fresh...and ready to meet a handsome stranger at the new years eve party of your choice. I doubt your guy is planning anything for that occasion either. Why not ask him what his plans are for the two of you for new years (since it's probably the first news year eve celebration as a couple)? You must admit that you still resent him forgetting your birthday--take action that will make you feel better. If you don't care about yourself...why should anyone else. Happy belated birthday and happy thanksgiving to ya.
2006-11-22 07:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some form of untamed animal, like a tiger. Thats something he would by no ability forget. something loopy because climate he likes it or no longer the most memorible presents are those that are ether on the breaking point of impossiable to do or purely so loopy you could snort about it for years and everytime he thinks about or see's a tiger he will imagine of you.
2016-11-29 09:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why some women make up such a big deal about this. It's just your birthday and it's easy to forget birthdays. I have even forgotten my own mother's birthday. If it really bothers you say something about it. Don't just sit there for months, wait and pout. You are a woman, hear you roar, lol.
2006-11-22 07:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by pilljills 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you should remember his birthday. Guys are just like that, they'd forget their arms if they weren't attached. They are just not good at remembering birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Don't give him something in the hopes of getting something in return--do it because you love him unconditionally.
2006-11-22 07:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered Prozac?
2006-11-22 07:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by TruthBTold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want to maintain this relationship? If you nurture these little slights, its dead. Follow your heart.
2006-11-22 07:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are just a booty call..
I think you got used... Get over him and dump his butt.
2006-11-22 07:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply pretend like u 4got his, or 4got 2 give him a present.
he deserves it. and, it will save u money!
2006-11-22 07:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by HannyXoDarling 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be single it says you money
2006-11-22 07:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋