when your flirting with a girl over text messages and she says to you "you know ive always fancied you,when you going to ask me out on a date?"and the guy say "i think im about next saturday" and she says "well thats not really definate is it!"and thats how it was left.
what do you really mean?are you shy?bearing in mind you didnt know that this girl fancied you and the texts were happening quite late when both parties were out on the town drinking?
2006-11-22 07:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have kissed and hes been chasing me for years!!!hes 28 and single.
2006-11-22 07:20:55 · update #1
Im a girl asking about this guy-just to avoid any confusion!!!lol x
2006-11-22 07:25:15 · update #2
It sounds like you have been soding around for years, think of the time wasted that you might have had together. Or is this the thrill of the chase for both of you?
If you are interested then I think you will find we men are very simple, call him up, ask him if he is doing anything on Saturday and then ask him out on a date.
End of story.
2006-11-22 07:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by andiroo_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 28 and this is going on? I've been there before, and trust me, if he isn't putting his money where his mouth is then he's just playing around, and you need to look elsewhere for a relationship. By that I mean that if he isn't consistently making plans with you (and not "maybe" plans but definite ones) and asking you to date HIM EXCLUSIVELY, then he is not interested in having a relationship.
You let him know you were interested - if he was serious about dating you, he would have jumped at the opportunity to secure a date with you. He's been pursuing you for years you say - he probably finds you attractive, and liked pursuing you, but never intended to have a real relationship. I'm 28 and I've been through guys like this. By chance is his name Andy? Ha ha.
2006-11-22 15:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 28 going on 14 by the sound of it!
2006-11-22 15:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want a relationship.....he just wants an F buddy. Text messages mean nothing. Isn't that what girls normally tell guys? Its laughable when you guys get a taste of your own medicine.
2006-11-22 15:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pleased to see that you Brits have managed to exceed in slaughtering the English language. What took you so long? The youth of American is miles ahead of you on this. Now it appears that you're running neck in neck.
Good show!
2006-11-22 15:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you are playing the Cat and the Mouse. Invite him to go out, and see what can happen from there.
2006-11-22 15:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and ask her out for a specific date and time...she is flirting and wants you to make the first move.
2006-11-22 15:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you hang-up the phone, forget the damned text message, and go talk to the poor conversationally-challenged girl??!!
2006-11-22 15:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rocket Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋