He works 9-9 everyday but Sun. It's the only day we can relax with each other. I used to eat Sun dinner w/ my sis and her kids, but slacked off during the last few months because of longer hours at work and a few other things not including my BF. She sees this as me "neglecting" her & putting my BF first. When I went over, all I did was sit there for a few hours while she cooked, & then left after eating. I just started reffering to my BF about a month ago, but we've been together since July. Now that she knows about him, its all his fault according to her and thats not the case, cause I started slacking off BEFORE she ever even knew about my BF. They've never met due to conflicying schedules, but he's anxious to meet my family (he doesnt know how she feels, and shes expressed herself INDIRECTLY to me). My nephew (13) said last night "how come you dont call when hes around anymore?" Obviously shes been talkeing about my BF in his presence and saying (possibly) bad things about him HELP
2006-11-22 07:19:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to get over it. if you want to be alone, then choose your sisters company. she knows what it is like to be dating, and too bad for her.
family shouldnt place burdens on you like this, and as for the nephew, that sounds like your sistyer has been bitching to them so much that they too believe you are neglecting them. hell, I hardly saw my family when I was out with women, but they didnt care, better to give feedoms than limitations.
your sister is selfish and is thinking only of herself. do I detect her being a solo mum? if so, thats the reason, jealousy for sure.
2006-11-22 07:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with spending some time with your man and your sister needs to understand that! Your world doesn't evolve around her, so why should she get jealous of you? Your boyfriend works hard-all day and everyday and the both of you want to spend some time with each and take a time out! Your sister is 30-years-old, and to me, she's acting very immature, because your sister strongly believes that you're neglecting her and choosing her over your boyfriend! You need to sit down and talk to your sister and tell her how you feel about her jealousy and how much it ruins your relationship with her! If it doesn't work out, leave her alone! Good luck and hopefully my advice helps you!
2006-11-22 07:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've got been contained in the comparable difficulty as your boyfriend's sister. I have been given jealous and indignant at my brother's female chum with the aid of fact i assumed she became into taking him faraway from me. you may desire to seem at it from her point of view for a 2nd. maximum of her existence that's probably been only her and her brother mutually as a family members, yet then they start to advance up and he gets a female chum. unexpectedly he's long previous and incredibly enjoys being with you and does not incredibly be conscious that his sister is disillusioned with the aid of fact in line with threat they arent putting out almost as plenty. I propose attending to nicely known his sister slightly greater, supply her some interest and enable her recognize which you do no longer prefer her to be indignant or jealous of you. as quickly as she sees which you're incredibly attempting to make each and every thing greater effective she'll perk as much as the assumption of in line with threat having a sister parent of you. additionally, tell your boyfriend to spend it slow along with her. he's a guy and that they dont incredibly care what their sister is feeling. returned, basically a practise. Pray approximately it, regardless of occurs is what's meant to ensue. stable success =)
2016-10-04 06:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister needs to get a life. Spend the time w/your boyfriend if that's all you have is sundays together. You can spend any other time with your sister. Talk to her too...she needs to understand this and quit badmouthing to her son.
2006-11-22 07:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to back off, she dosent even know him, she needs to realize you have a life, and cant always be there. she should be glad your close at least, not like your in another state, or country, (right? guessing since you said every sunday. she dose just need to give you space. no like you were naggin her like that when she was 21, well idk, maybe you were, but she needs to get a life, and let you live yours
2006-11-22 07:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's 30. I seriously doubt she is jealous of you. There is a bigger issue here. Your BF is probably a loser or something.
2006-11-22 07:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by TruthBTold 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be able to make time for your family AND you bf at different times you know?
2006-11-22 07:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bring your boyfriend to dinner with you when you go to your sisters more often and talk to her about it.
2006-11-22 07:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, if i was instead of your sister , i would get jealous of you as well .
2006-11-22 07:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋