How can I help her? She was divorced after 15 yrs of marriage, left by a military piece of trash. Then found another husband, He died after a year of marriage, very unexpected, She is very sad and lonely, is trying to go to college and be a teacher...She is very pretty and has an overwelming personality she is so much fun and everyone young and old loves to be around her...I just wish I could make her know how precious she is ............
2006-11-22 07:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just keep telling her how kind, loving and worthy she is. I think that kind of pain back to back can be very difficult to overcome. But with a lot of love and support from you, she will come through it.
2006-11-22 07:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by MT Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I'm sorry your daughter has had a rough time of it. You sound like a wonderful parent. Maybe you can just tell her how you feel about being her parent and how precious she is to you? My daughter has also had a rough time and I'm trying to really strengthen our relationship. We have lunch together pretty often since we live fairly close together, and we always have a great time. I hope your daughter continues on her plan to go to college and be a teacher. If she is grieving the loss of her husband, I would suggest she see a grief counselor, or get into a grief support group. Check with your local hospital, mortuary, or crisis center. They can usually recommend a grief counselor or support group.
2006-11-22 15:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try spending more time with her and doing fun things with her like when she was a child. She needs alot of love and sometimes when we tell them how special they are they don't believeit, I guess because we are their parents. I know you probably do these things but it is a very sad situation for her and I really feel for her. All you can do is love her, be there and help her walk again.....
2006-11-22 15:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by justmmez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her and make sure she doesn't get depressed and be the person she relies on . so, that she will be OK . and oh, yeah you make let her know she is loved every day , and don't let her hurt by herself and she will be happy and get threw anything with her dad by her side
2006-11-22 15:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by kathryn j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage and offer to go with her to grief counseling
2006-11-22 16:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it u said she pretty and has a good personality just wait and she'll find someone right for her.
2006-11-22 16:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is make sure she knows that you love her, and that you are there for her. Good luck.
2006-11-22 15:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rocket Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her and tell her that she would feel much better trust me
2006-11-22 15:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋