If it is a sin to have sex with anyone you want,why are we designed to reproduce this way?

Question

Biological urges are the reason we have sex why did god make us this way if it offended him for us to act on them?

well if god made sex for marriage,why wasn't i born with it tattooed on my penis as I may not have access to a bible when it came time to have sex?

A lot of people have come back with something like"since physically I am able to kill,is it okay to do it by your logic?"I would like to answer this. I believe you should have the right to kill anyone you want,and their families and friends should have the right to kill you for doing so.The problem would balance itself out without bringing morals,laws or God into it.

Answer 1

Ironic, eh? No worries, sin and all of that are made-up concepts.

Morals, on the other hand, are real, exist separately from this "god" creature, and should be exercised.

Answer 2

You know - I got really made at someone the other day and wanted to kill them... I have the ability to do that so I should have, right?
That is the premise you have - since you can, you should.
There is a right and wrong, and there are things that harm us even if we don't realize it at the time.

Sex is a gift from God given to a man and a woman who are married. Self-indulgence and permissiveness in our society have diluted that - we have convinced ourselves otherwise, and become desensitzed to so much.

My wife and I waited three years, until we were married to have sex. What the world does not know is that God blesses this so much - when couples have sex before marriage there is a great deal missing - such as commitment and trust factors, and spiritual factors as well. My wife and I never tire of each other and the fulfillment and level that our hearts and souls come together could not be known if we had compromised before following God's plan.
You want great , life-long love, physical and spiritual? - wait.

Answer 3

Sex is "not" a sin. Biblically, you are suppose to have one wife only. Marriage is the only bond allowed that gives permission to have sex. In Genesis, it was just Adam and Eve. They were also told to "be fruitful and multiply."
Sure, sex is the only way to procreate. It was also made pleasurable so that we would procreate. If it was a so-so experience, or even a miserable experience, you think the population in the world would be as high as it is today?
We were made to have sex and to enjoy it. Like all things though, we have to do it in moderation. If we start straying to have sex with others, problems arise, such as hurt feelings, diseases, unwanted pregnancies, etc. In a faithful marriage, we can have all the sex that we want. We also have the choice to have children or not to have children, through birth control. The Bible NEVER said not to enjoy sex, or you must only use it to have children. By ensuring a marriage, Paternity is established and a womans security is secured.

Answer 4

Are you saying that when you have sex you are trying to reproduce? I doubt that. And besides, what if the "anybody you want" is of the same sex as you? No babies there! Sexual intercourse is the marvelous, transcendent thing it is because, for one reason, it is an earthly reflection of God's spiritual union with His church. Loyalty and devotion play a big part in both relationships. So your question implies that ideally we should all go around making babies left and right with no concept of family. What kind of world would that give us?

Answer 5

that's kind of a silly example. He also gave you a brain and a heart. The brain is supposed to keep you from making stupid mistakes, or dangerous mistakes, and the heart to point you in the right direction. Would you jump in a swimming hole full of sharks even though God had programmed you to play in the water on a nice summer day? I've always wanted to stretch my arms up and fly kind of like Superman did when I was a kid, but you won't catch me running around jumping up in the air with a little cape on. I know He put it in my heart to fly, but I'll wait till He finishes me.

Answer 6

We are meant to share ourselves with one person in marriage to create children.
We are supposed to have self control not to run around humping everything that moves.
We are designed to be able to mate with anyone of the opposite sex so that we don't have to worry about not only finding compatible personalities and values, but compatible genitals. We aren't jig-saw puzzles ya know.

Answer 7

It does not offend God if we have sex.
He encouraged it. Genesis 1:28.
What offends Him is the context in which some people have sex.
Like getting your driver's liscence.
O.K. you have it, but rules accompany the privilege.
Don't speed. Don't go through stop signs, etc.
God gave us sex AND the context in which we should practice it.

Answer 8

Nowhere in biology does it say we should have sex with everyone we want to reproduce... usually just takes one person. Just because God made something, doesnt mean WE dont abuse it and make it sin. There isnt anything in creation that cannot be done/used sinfully.

Answer 9

In my opinion having sex with just 'anyone' and not the one you really love is a sin.
I think maybe the reason why we are design to reproduce this way is because these is the most sensitive thing that you can do and most people will only do it with someone they love or love them and someone that they are allright to do it with them and not disgusted!!!...
and to asure that someone will take care of the baby afterwards we are design to reproduce this way...
I know its confusing...
but for me sex is for the person you like,you love,or the person married to.
Sex is either to express your love for someone you 'love', for pleasure if your just doin it with someone you just like, or to reproduce, express love,pleasure for someone you love and married to

Answer 10

You can have sex with the person that you are married with!! You can marry whoever you wish as long as the person isn't a family member or that she isn't married to someone else.