my husbands ex uses their son "tim" like bait to get what she wants and her jealousy over me is making it very hard for me to develop a relationship with tim.i am not allowed to watch tim if my husband can't his ex is to be called to get him.i am not allowed to have any contact with his school or freinds and the list goes on.tim loves spending time with me and i have never talked bad about his mom infront of him or tryed to be his mom.she is just pissed that we do things as a family and that i'm in what she feels is "her"place.my husband will not say anything to her as he says it will not do any good i can't control what she does.i think hes just afraid to confront her as he allways accomudates her and never questions anything she does.i understand my husband wants to stay on good turms with his ex for his sons sake but should she be allowed to treat me this way for no good reason and my husband just turns a blind eye to it?should i just let it go?we fight over this all the time
2006-11-22 06:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If it were me, I would not pay any attention to her demands. When Tim is with your husband and you it is none of her business. Ask your husband what you "can do" with Tim and let her deal with your husband if she doesn't like it. Be assertive and do fun things with Tim when ever you can. You can't be blamed for wanting to do things that he enjoys. I commend you for being concerned for Tim.
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