my girl I've been with for a long time cheated on me, but says she loves me and only wants me, how can she say that?, I feel she only wants me now after she did her thing and found she don't want him, but can she say that she loves me and mean it?
2006-11-22 06:53:59 · 12 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes she could realize she made a big mistake and really loves you but it could also go the other way around. If she persist with the cheating then no she just figures u won't leave her and will let her do whatever she wants?
2006-11-22 06:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by diamond39206 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can still love you, I don't know about the "only wants you" part. Sounds like the two of you need to sit down set your boundaries of your relationship. What each of you expect from a partner. As well as what each of you want from the relationship.
My man and I openly see other people, it doesn't mean that we don't love and respect one another. But it works for the both of us that way. Nor do I see as we're keeping our options open, its just that we have other folks in our lives whom we like to spend time with.
2006-11-22 07:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person does not love you if they cheat and i know about that it happen to me 2 times.
2006-11-22 07:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hadn't found out, do you think she would have stopped? She cheated on you, she deserves to go to the dirt. She may just want attention, however. I cheated on my boyfriend cuz my real boy ept ditching me for his friends, and he didn't find out. Guess what I did? I flirted with his bestfriend to make him realize that he had to stop flirting with my sister (he had liked her for years, but she was to young) (they are going out now). He stopped. Pay more attantion to her. If it freaks her out, YOU dump HER.
2006-11-22 07:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible, sometimes people need to see if the grass is greener on the other side to make sure theyre making the right decision, but other times they just have no conscience and do what they please. so find out which one was why and go from there....it is possible to realize ur mistakes and be sorry but its a hell of alot harder to forgive that and build back that trust
2006-11-22 06:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO SHE DOSENT LOVE U SHE ONLY SAY SHE LOVES U CAUSE U FOUND OUT SHE CHEATED NOW SHE FEELS BAD
2006-11-22 06:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by keanda g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she can but it can hard to move on even though she DID"" her thing and didnt like IT move on she cheated on u so screw her back and say NO getta hold of youself boy.. Geez
- Ryan * Yes. Im a Girl *
2006-11-22 06:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Im So In Love With Him. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't truely love someone and cheat on them. as for the I only want you crap, if she only wanted you, why did she cheat? she might love you but I don't know if it's real.
2006-11-22 06:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated on you
end it
she had her chance, and she cheated on you, you dont decerve that, she made a mistake, hurt you(?)
she only wants you cause she realized she made a mistake, and could lose you, but later, she'll just do it again....
2006-11-22 06:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can say it and mean it. but i think you two need to sit down and talk. ask her why she strayed in the first place?? perhaps there's something that happened that fell on deaf ears and was never sorted out.
2006-11-22 06:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋