I am 39 and have gone out twice with a woman who is 15 yonger than me (24). The last time we went out, she told me I was too old for her and that she wanted to "just be friends". However, not 20 seconds later we got involved in some "fooling around". Im totally confused now.
2006-11-22 06:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by captainkirkwood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
younger people are more relaxed about sex than our generation.
maybe she wants sex and to be "just friends"
2006-11-22 06:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a 36 y/o dating a 27 y/o, I do not like to play, but it sounds like she's still a bit immature. I'd cool it, play the 'let's be friends routine' IF your truly interested. Granted it you've only gone out 2x's. How involved was the 'fooling around'? Pursue if more than just simple stuff, but move along or play it as she see's while you go about finding someone new.
2006-11-22 06:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by zman70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 09:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know that she is really attacted to younger men, she just fools around with u because of what you do for her. I've dated about three older men over the age of 40, seriously, and if they did nothing for me, I probably wouldn't have given them the time of day.
2006-11-22 06:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems confused as well. Talk to her about it. Ask her what's going through her mind! Does she want to be just friends? friends with benefits? or what? Ask for her definition of each and the parameters.
2006-11-22 06:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words
2006-11-22 06:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by DannyC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-22 06:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by mane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By 'friend' I think she means ****-buddies.
2006-11-22 06:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it let come out with it first
2006-11-22 06:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'd say
2006-11-22 06:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋