I've been with my current girl for about 6 months. In that time, I have not been able to achieve orgasm with her. Never had this problem with anyone else before, and I'm only 30 and everything still works. It doesn't matter how long we go, I just can't quite get there. Close, but not quite. Have you guys ever experienced something like this and what did you do to 'cure' the problem? No, I'm not gay, and yes, I still wake up in the morning at full mast, etc. Everything works, except the finish. What the hell??
2006-11-22 06:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can get there by myself. And to answer another question, she usually gets her O after about 10 minutes. We keep going but I never get there. I have faked it so as to not hurt her feelings. That makes me feel like a dirtball.
2006-11-22 06:49:51 · update #1
If she turns you on....then you should consult a doctor. If she doesn't......then...you know what you should do.
2006-11-22 06:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've not experienced this phenom, I'm assuming she's very well satisfied. Perhaps you need to visualize something else, or someone else. Is this just intercourse, or fellatio as well, that may break the ice and then take it from there, how about the forbidden zone, give that a try, obviously if she let's you.
2006-11-22 14:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by zman70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fear of pregnancy is a factor- or guilt about something- you will have to take a deep look inside yourself for that one- even thinking that sex outside marriage is wrong- or your heart is elsewhere- something to think about-also you may want to make sure you don't have diabetes or high blood pressure-D
2006-11-22 14:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a supplement at GNC called Horny Goat Weed. I've taken it before and it really does help. Should help you have an orgasm with no problem.
2006-11-22 14:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're stressing out about it too much. Just relax and enjoy. You can't keep worrying about something because you're putting pressure on yourself which makes it worse.
2006-11-22 14:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much fore play do you have? Maybe you are not getting excited enough to go all the way? Try more foreplay and have her say or do some extra things while you are having sex.
2006-11-22 14:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you been masturbating before having sex this can happen. what you body need is some time off the sex so that it can reset it self. i find that 1 to 2 day reset me and i really for action so with hold from all acts of self sex and you will get what you need.. good luck
2006-11-22 14:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a sexual dysfunction called retarded ejaculation, in which it takes a long time to finish. Its a real term, although it sounds funny. Thanks for putting some of my psychology education to use! Or her stuff may not be for you - meaning SHE can't get u there.
2006-11-22 14:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much lube can desensitize? Can you "finish" yourself? Are you distracted? Are you worried about getting her pregnant? Do you know that you can get performace anxiety by worrying about preforming? Catch-22, mean trick, I know.
2006-11-22 14:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ihave. i never found a solution but when we broke up it was back to norm. i think it was just him.
2006-11-22 14:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋