I'm looking for someone to share my life with. How do i find that? All i seem to end up finding is older men that aren't right for me.
2006-11-22 06:38:23 · 25 answers · asked by tward1989 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love isn't something that you can go in search of. You can't make it, or mold it, or force it or find it. It's one of those elusive things that finds you.
2006-11-22 06:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by p_lo25 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always seem to find a long term boyfriend when I am not even looking for one. When I am preoccupied and busy with my own life someone always comes around and we end up being together for a very long time. I think you should just forget about it for the time being and you will find that person when you least expect it!
2006-11-22 06:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Queeny 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't find love. Love happens. It hits you in the face with a baseball, and it's a matter of if you can catch it. Look for someone your age, with the same interests, but not to be exactly like you. Be flexible about what you expect. If he has blue eyes instead of brown, chill. But you have no guarantee they will be "the ONE". Generally, the person you don't expect to like you, or love you, the person RIGHT in front of your face is the one that has potential. But don't obsess. Love happens, but not if you force it to, or if you expect it and wait at its front door. Love happens when it is meant to.
2006-11-22 06:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I would probably be your best choice, but just live life and flirt. If you keep looking you'll never find anyone let them come to you
2006-11-22 06:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you just have to wait on it.love don't always come when you want it to come. It takes time. when it is your time to get love, you will know it. don't go out searching for love in all the wrong places. it could be right in front of you. good luck. but be patient with love.
2006-11-22 06:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by cherry 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and let a good man to approach you. you and pick and choose if you fell for the right one. you will know in your heart when you find the right prson.
2006-11-22 13:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by shiningstar2808 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its kind of luck I think.
For me it goes step by step, I usually get hurt anyway.
Be attracted, have things to talk about. See if you like an hour together, then an afternoon, then a day, etc.
2006-11-22 06:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it can be like looking for a fart in a jacuzzi: your eyes and ears are no good...only your nose. Trust your nose.
2006-11-22 06:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Josephine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont find love, love comes to u. if u search for it your gonna find it in all the wrong places.
you will eventually find someone who u love and they will love u back
2006-11-22 06:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by will's girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go and enjoy life, that way you'll totally be yourself and the right man will come to you. don't rush it, it will happen but only when you're happy with yourself.
2006-11-22 06:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋