Why or why not?
2006-11-22 06:36:54 · 17 answers · asked by Red 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's just add to the scenario that this is kind of a fresh relationship and the woman doesn't feel that the children should be involved yet.
2006-11-22 06:54:52 · update #1
Sure If I am wanting your company, I would either pay for a sitter or the kids come too. They are a part of your life too. But then some people might find that weird. If you are desired why wouldn't I. To be with you. Sure!
2006-11-22 06:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst i became single and had 3 youthful teenagers, some adult men asked in the event that they could pay the sitter's cost. It appeared so offensive to me on the time and that i do no longer remember why. I particular did no longer believe anyone so as that could have been area of it - i don't recognize. i consistently paid and did no longer flow out if i did no longer have the money to have a sitter. looking back i think of that i became too speedy to bounce to undesirable conclusions of what it meant. it may desire to intend that the guy has extra money than you - which would be ninety 9 consistent with cent of the time and it rather is purely logical in the event that they provide, to settle for it. yet i might by no ability ask a guy to pay for the sitter. That purely seems so incorrect!
2016-10-17 09:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love kids so I would try to involve them when possible. On occassions when we just want to be out alone, yes, I would pay the sitter. I was raised a country boy with old fashioned beliefs in how a should act.
My ex-girlfriend and I still get along and share custody of our dog. I help with his daycare, grooming, and vet bills.
I actually dated a girl once who had bad brakes in her car but couldn't afford to fix them. I put her car in the shop and had them fixed. It's just who I am. Any yes, I tend to get used from time to time, but I'm not changing what I believe to be right.
2006-11-22 06:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a guy but I'm a single mom. I have had a few guys that have offered to pay for my sitter, but I have declined everytime. A guy can offer but it's up to us. For me it's weird. If I can't pay for my own sitter, I shouldn't go out. I guess I feel like I would "owe" him something. I don't want to feel like that.
I hope this helped a little.
2006-11-22 06:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because our date would involve a place where they could go with us. I am not in favor of having children just to pawn them off on someone else so I can "do my thing". I never had a baby sitter in my life and my children never had one. If you are going somewhere that your kids can't go, it's probably not the kind of place you should be going to either.
2006-11-22 06:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the lady, If I thought that something could come from the relationship, such as we have a lot in common, dancing , camping and so on, yes, but not on the first date.
If I felt that it was going to last , and become something more than a freindship, most definitly.
2006-11-22 06:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin C K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! If she wants a life then she would pay for the sitter for her own kids. if it were a long term thing though then yeah!
2006-11-22 06:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we were dating for several months and I thought we had a future, sure. But not on the first few dates.
Let's see, what do women look for in a man?.......Exactly!!
2006-11-22 06:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by tightlies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if she needed the money or just to be nice i would not want to offend her but i would pay
2006-11-22 06:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, but not for the first date, thats because you never know if you click or not, but if you've been dating for some time, heck ya, that your be a good thing to do
2006-11-22 06:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋