I dont know what to think?
It seems everytime I go out with my girlfriend she always has to talk to guys for her friends. I dont know why I should let this bother me b/c the first thing she mentions is me. I have talked to her about it and she says that shes not interested in these guys at all she just trys to get her friends to talk to the guys. I have tried to get over this but I cant. She does this everytime we go out and I just want to hang out with her sometimes w/o her talking to every guy in the bar. She says she likes talking to people and thats it, shes not trying to hook up or flirt with anyone. I dont know what to think. Sometimes I think I am a jerk b/c I dont want her to talk to guys for her friends, and sometimes I think its kind of rude to be doing it in front of me. What do you guys think?
2006-11-22 06:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Jimmy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that if she's going out with you she needs to stay with you not talk to all the other guys there. If she wants to get guys for her friends tell her to do it when she's not out on a date or whatever with you. It's messed up that she would do that.
2006-11-22 06:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to be able to trust her, since she is doing it right in front of you and obviously has nothing to hide. She really is just trying to help out her friends, who obviously do not have her charm and confidence. I have a friend like this as well.
However, she shouldn't be abandoning or ignoring you, either. She ought to rate spending time with you as high as helping out her friends. Tell her that you trust her, but you would like it if she would spend more time focusing on you when you go out together. Try to find a compromise, like she will only hook up one friend a night, or she will only mingle for an hour and then spend the next hour with you, etc. Or hey, try joining her and do some male bonding with these guys - maybe you'll make a new friend. =)
2006-11-22 06:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is extremely rude. Does she just expect you to stand there while she makes her way around the bar talking to every guy ?? And what do you think some of these guys are thinking looking at you standing there while she is making her rounds ?? I would never in a million years stand for this. I say next time you guys go out bring a few of your friends and walk around the bar talking to girls. See how she likes it.
2006-11-22 06:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its rude to be doing this, even though its harmless if you don't like it she should respect that. if she doesn't stop after asking her too then 2 can play at this invite some of your friends next time and do the same. and see what see does, maybe by doing this she will no how it feels to see her man talking to a woman in a bar etc. beside its not her responsibility to be hooking up her friends with guys. why don't they do it themselves
2006-11-22 06:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think if she goes out with you she should be with you and her friends should try to talk to guys on their own
I dont think she does it to hurt you or she is going to hook up with any of the guys since you are there is good that she talks about you try telling her that its not ok with you
you are nota jerk i mean i get it i it wouldnt like it if my boyfriend did that
2006-11-22 06:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW,, BUT SHE IS BEING VERY DISRESPECTFUL,,, so be a man and tell her to quit, especialy since its bugging u,,,,,,, tell her that when she is with you u aint wanna share her with no one else,, so save it until u aint aroun d.........
wishu luck dude
2006-11-22 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her not to do it infront of you because it really bothers you no matter if she isn't into them or not
2006-11-22 06:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋