this boi and me broke up we are kind of friends but lately he has been goin out with a couple people and he seems to be tryin to make me jelous and i can tell and now i dont want to be friends with someone who is goin to try to hurt me and he seems so angry at me 4 not be jelous should i le him go as a friend or just comeplety out of my life
2006-11-22 06:36:16 · 26 answers · asked by keanda g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When emotionally he's already gone.
2006-11-22 06:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by p_lo25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's trying to make you jealous, obviously he still likes you or feels something towards you.
And if its hurting you, I think you might still feel something too.
What made you guys break up? Maybe he really didn't want to, or he regrets it now.
I think he might be trying to get a reaction out of you to see if you still do feel something or him or if you don't really care.
I don't think cutting him from your life completely would be the best option, maybe you can ask him or talk to him about the breakup.
I also agree that he might be doing it to push you away because -he- doesn't know how to let you go.
Good luck :)
2006-11-22 06:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him go as a friend, that would constitute you cutting him from your life altogether. I dated someone last year, and have been able to maintain a friendship with him, but the minute he no longer treats me as a "friend" (and I know that you know what that means) I'll have no choice but to let him go. If you were once together, and then became friends, when you no longer have either one of those all it does is enable drama to rear its head. Let him know that you're aware of his game, and if he can't treat you like a friend, then there's really nothing left to hold on to.
2006-11-22 06:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Heather R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Avoid the games. Don't go back. Move on, don't waste effort on trying to keep an old relationship as a friendship. Be civil and kind to him, but don't let his immature games take up your time.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 06:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go cos if he wants to get back to you he will if he doesn't like you or some thing it means ur not important for him and i guess at this Case he doesn't want to make u jelous but if he really does then he will get back to you cos still he wants to spend some time with his old friend
2006-11-22 06:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something like that happened to me a couple of months ago. What i did was to leave him alone, maybe he needs time to see what is what he really wants to do!
you dont have to stop being friends with him, just give him space or ask him why is he being that way, maybe he still loves you and wants to know if you do 2!
2006-11-22 06:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Find someone who won't play games cause in the end your feelings will be hurt and you will be arguing instead of enjoying the whole dating experience and having someone wh really cares for you. I know from experience don't waste your time. YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!
2006-11-22 06:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by diamond39206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be friends with someone that you used to date. From what you are saying, it's probably best to put him out of your life completely. Is it that he's trying to make you jealous, or is it that you are feeling that way b/c you still have feelings for him?
2006-11-22 06:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel you because I too care about my Ex-BF and he keeps hurting me to even after I tell him "Please don't speak to me about her".
I have just decided it time to let him go as a friend....you will know when it time for you to let go when....you can't take the pain he brings to your life any more....you ask the question so it might be "that time" sweetie. Good luck.
2006-11-22 06:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ready to let go when there is nothing left unsaid & no hard feelings left. You are ready to let go when YOU have tried everything to salvage a relationship & you just realize that there is nothing left. And that is ok with you. That's when it's over.
2006-11-22 06:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just doing it to make you jealous then he will come around because he wont be able to play that game for too long. I would just do me and everything will fall into place.
2006-11-22 06:40:16 · answer #11 · answered by Queeny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋