i'm seeing this girl, and i called her by another girls name, how can i fix this??

Question

i was drunk but thats no excuse the name is of a person i'm working with, i'm a career counslor and i deal with a lot of people. but yes i was drunk and well no more drinking, we are talking still and she said it was a simple mistake and were going to get through this, the bad part is i did this the day i was going to propose to her....i would prefer females to answer this one as well. and we were i dont even remember where or what we were doing to where i ended up calling her by another chicks name

Answer 1

Tell her for you being so dumb about the whole thing, she can call you "Charlie Brown" for a week, and you won't be mad! Tell her you just were spaced out or something and because they had the same color on that day (or hair) it just slipped out. Of course it will never happen again!! Good luck!

Answer 2

Ouch! That is a bad mistake. She will remember it forever. How long have you been with this girl? How long were you with the other girl? Sometimes a new relationship can get past this mistake when the older relationship was long term.

What were you doing when you mixed up the names? If you were arguing you can pull this off. Tell her that you used to argue all of the time with the other girl. Tell her that you still associate your anger with her. Let her know that you like (love) her and do not ever want the relationship that you had with the other woman. Hopefully this is the truth.

If you said the past girl's name in the heat of passion, there is NOTHING that can make that better. Your current girl may forgive you, with lots of nice treatment, flowers, gifts, ... However, she is not likely to forget.

Answer 3

unfortunalty there is no good way in correcting this. (if you called your girlfriend the name of an ex then your in deep) Just tell your girlfriend it was a relaspe of the mind and that it will never happened again and make sure it doesn't, but it also could be your subconscious saying it's time to break up, but most likly it was just a mistake.

Answer 4

lol ! I'm not laughing at you...I'm laughing with you. You will laugh...not now, but later. All guys have done this before. Usually just once. Time is the only healer. She's not going to forgive you right away. Just say sorry and let her take time to get over it. Poor guy!

Answer 5

Ouch. I think this one is unfixable. But you can try explaining to her why you called her that. Was it an ex-girlfriend's name that you were just used to saying? I know that if my boyfriend called me by another name I wouldn't forgive him very easily. Good luck.

Answer 6

say you were drunk VERY drunk OR had a head wound or worried about a relative who lives far away but whatever you tell her get her her favorit flowers and booze and DONT do it again.

Answer 7

Oooooops!!!! Hopefully it wasn't during sex! If so, you are so screwed!

All you can do is apologize - over and over again! Just tell her it was out of habit, and reassure her that you don't have any feelings for the other girl!

And then, on Thanksgiving, give thanks that she didn't kick your a**!!

Answer 8

U can't fix nothing.
THa is not even cool.
obviously u aint serious about this girl by calling her another chicks name.
if i was her i would leave u because i couldn't talk to someone and they call me someone's name.
if my boyfriend called me another girls name i would drop him so fast.

Answer 9

Go date the 'another girl'!!

Answer 10

Just break up now. No sense in wasting time. She'll never forgive you.