Should I do this...?

Question

I turned 18 in September and I met my girlfriend who's 15 the same month. She didn't want me to stay with me cuz she didn't want to lose me to some other girl when i went to school. Now she wants to be together while i'm away at school but i don't know if i want to be this serious and hold on to something i'm really not sure about. She told me to do whatever makes me happy but i know she's happy with me and said i'm not like any other guy she's ever been with. I know i'll meet other gurls and everything and i may even be happier with one of them but i feel bad for her cuz she lives in a bad town and wuz in relationships that she just got used in. I'm a virgin myself and never did anything with her and don't plan on it. I don't want to mess around w/ her and break up and make it seem like I wuz using her cuz that's not me. I just need to know if I should let her go.

Answer 1

U r a good guy.
god needed to make more boys like u
I f shes someone u deeply care about and u see the relationship going further then stay together, but if it aint nothing and ur not serious then u need to telll her and express your feelings but yall can still remain friends

Answer 2

If you really want to persue a relationship with this girl you have to figure out if to you it is worth it, if you love her and think it will work try to persue it if does not work out like you hoped then move on keep trying. You have to do what you feel is right and don't let her push you into something that you are not ready for if that is what her plan is, you don't need to mess up what you have created fro yourself. Don't do something just do it because it is what you want to do, If she knows what you expect of her and vice versa and persue the relationship. It sounds like she is a little immature and does not know excacatly what she wants, in my opinion find someone that will make you happy and has some maturity to them and is not a player, you don't need anymore drama in you life then you already have. I suggest you do what you feel is right if you want to break it off with her then do so, if not then tell what you want out of the relationship and fidn what she wants but let her you don't play around when comes to a serious relationship.

Answer 3

you dont NEED to do anything, excpet what you feel like you should do. If you fell that ending it is best, then end it, if you want to be with her, be with her. your 3 years apart, no big difference there, but shes 15, and has alot ahead of her, so she should also think bout what she wants, she says she wants to be wih you, yes, but your away at school, idk how far away, but dose she really want to be with someone not around alot(which im guessing is true, since you said away at school?) just you two talk, figure out whats best right now, still be friends if you end the relationship, dont end it on bad terms, and who knows, maybe a little later, something will happen, if its ment to be that is. just dont hold on to her if you dont feel like thats whae should happen, you will only hurt her more if you hold on to her now, just so shes happy. Hope i was some help... good luck

Answer 4

well if you want to go to school then go to school, relationships some times don't turn out the way you want them to so if you risk everything to stay with her then it might not work out, and don't sleep with her she's under age. (It's illegal)

Answer 5

ok so you just started dating and she cant even drive a car yet, and you are going away to college..you havent experienced life yet so dont get so serious about this, she will get over it and so will you....have fun like college kids do....

Answer 6

it sounds liek your both unsure and just want to hold on, you could both end up ebign nfaithful and it will be this big messy dawson's creek drama, do you really need that?

Answer 7

why u want let her go? u not happy with girl?? why in 1st palce u want with her u alr make her happy... if u break up with her! she sure be sad cos of u...

Answer 8

let her go