2006-11-22 06:25:07 · 27 answers · asked by Matt C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe because you guys don't ask us out? you never know we might like you! I like nice guys not bad @sses
2006-11-22 06:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol... your standards are too high probably.. you cant just expect people to rollover for you becuase your nice.. theres always someone else whos nice what makes you so much better? I had a friend who was a decent guy real nice.. but like he was attempting at girls way over his head. all he would get is "Lets be friends" kind of stuff.
Nice is just 1 quality and frankly its not the #1 quality...
Think about it this way... it sounds arrogant but it may change your luck. You dont need a girl, a girl needs you. Find the girl that needs you and youll find yourself much more successful.
2006-11-22 14:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really that hard, are you looking for a girlfriend right now? Well, try to start talking to a nice girl u know, I know I'm looking for a great boyfriend too. GOOD LUCK <3
2006-11-22 14:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls don't like nice guys. Sure they all say they do but when the guy rolls in on the harley wearing the black leather jacket, it throws a spark in them.
Nice guys are easy, they are too passive and pushovers. Girls want guys with their own lives, opinions, tastes, likes, dislikes, goals, hobbies.
Try not letting on that your interested, try walking into a room and ignoring all the women and notice in your peripherials how many are looking. When you're looking at them they're not looking at you.
A friend of mine, when asked for a light by a hot girl at the bar, flicked it at her and hit her in the nose, burning her. She was back the next week, scar an all drueling over him. It wasnt very nice of him and he felt bad but he couldnt shake her after that...
2006-11-22 14:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its hard because you are not at the right place at the right time??? and as sad as it is girls like guys with attitude and the nice guys usually end up being just friends.
but never lose faith because when it comes to the long term relations the nice guy always wins.
2006-11-22 14:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I have no answer for you but rest assured that your question is like they say "age old", and that you are not the first nor will you be the last to inquire. From this point on you will get many answers. The best you can hope for is to choose the one that will bring you some comfort. Good luck.
2006-11-22 14:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by JaceBlue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly a 'nice guy,' you will find a nice girl in church! The Truth is in this Answer!
2006-11-22 14:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by bereftcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls don't like wusses. And by the way, self-proclaimed nice guys are often not as nice as they think they are. Take an honest look at yourself and see if maybe you're using niceness to manipulate others into liking you. Here's the test: Do you treat unattractive girls the same way you treat the hotties? People always give me thumbs down when I talk this way - sorry if the truth hurts.
2006-11-22 14:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bastardo 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nice is good, but it's not enough by itself. Would you date a girl just because she was nice, no matter how she looks, no matter whether she has anything interesting to say, etc? Or would it take something in addition to being nice?
2006-11-22 14:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by braennvin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not hard dude promise! Just continue being yourself! If you still can't find a girl... it's not your problem ok? Just believe in yourself and wait for the right time. God is just busy creating the right and exciting love story for you.... Goodluck then!!!
2006-11-22 14:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because chicks want a nice guy but need a strong independent man that does what he wants. It is nature, nice guys won't protect her and her children. They say they want a nice guy because it sounds good and they don't want to get hurt, but when they get one it doesn't really excite them. Think about what they need and not what comes out of their mouth.
2006-11-22 14:27:48 · answer #11 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋