Tell a guy I like him over AIM? I mean he knows who I am but it is still a weird situation.
2006-11-22 06:21:15 · 13 answers · asked by Lo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is kind of weird, but I can understand in the sense that you may be nervous and if he doesn't respond in a positive way. It's a lot more comfortable to deal with through a computer than it would be in person.
If you really don't have the courage to do it in person, just tell him over AIM that you don't mean to make things awkward, but you like him.
Good Luck! Hope this helps.
2006-11-22 06:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe AIM is so popular in part because you can have a conversation and not have to look that person in the eye. Its a lot easier to be completely honest when all you're looking at is a computer screen...kind of like sharing secrets in the dark...you'll say things that you might not otherwise...
If you feel more comfortable telling this guy you like him through AIM, than go for it...just be aware that at some point you'll have to see him face to face...the comfort level you feel on the computer might not be there in person...However I think that if you really, really like this guy it might be better to start a relationship by looking him in the eye and being completely honest...that way he'll know from the beginning that you're sincere...Good Luck.
2006-11-22 14:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very awkward and wierd. Even if he knows who you are, telling someone face-to-face is always better than telling them over the phone, e-mail, or, even worse, AIM.
2006-11-22 14:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by a_little_syco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just tell him. its better to tell him then keep it inside, because he might be feeling the same way, and if none of yall say how u feel then nothing aint gonna happen.
and at least u dont have to face him to tell him
2006-11-22 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by will's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, long distance relationship or not, I don't think he'll be too suprised, if you really think that what you have there is something special.
2006-11-22 14:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not werid. the first tiem me and my bf said i love you. was over aim, lame we know, ahhaa
2006-11-22 14:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean you switched toothpaste ??? what does that have to do with anything , if he likes you he will still accept you even if you use Colgate .......
2006-11-22 14:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-22 14:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares how you tell him get it out there
2006-11-22 14:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda....buuuut makes it less awkward if he doesnt feel the same way
2006-11-22 14:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋