i've talked with her a couple times, but i had imposed myself while she was chowing down on her lunch...at her table. she said she didnt mind the convo.....and that i shouldn't be afraid of girls...which i am. so my question is this: our teacher had us fill out a phone tree in case of class cancelation. how unethical is it that i use this girls number that she provided to the whole class as an "ask her out on a walk" number? by the by.....this girl is 19.....and we both have years left of school ahead of us. should i even be hitting on a nineteen year old? thanks for everyones input before hand. PEACE
2006-11-22 06:19:03 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think she likes you, then age is of no matter. But be a man and ask her out to her face. It's too weird to call her out of the blue like that. Warm up to it in your next conversation. Get some tickets to something and say "I've got an extra ticket....wanna go?" or invite her along to a party or something. Her answer will let you know how good your chances are with her. There is too much that could go wrong with a cold-call.
2006-11-22 06:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jumbonaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't be hitting on a 19 yo bro, kind of freaky. Friends okay, sleeping with, a no no
Also, it would be very unethical to use the number in such fashion. If you must ask her out, do it person don't be sneaking about it. Which is something else that may freak out a 19 yo.
A 30 yo man sneaking her number off the phone tree list to ask her out......yeah she's really going to say yes to that.
2006-11-22 14:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to get to know her first. See what she is into before you write her off as a 19 year old. See if you have mutual interests. Try and use homework assignments and class projects to spend time with her and get to know her. You can use her phone number- why not? if she's not interested, I'm sure you'll pick up on it and stop calling her. Good Luck, and no matter what believe in yourself.
2006-11-22 14:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by LaLaLand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she seems interested, i say go for it. you can always just call about a class assignment the first time - then ask if it'd be ok to call her again. if the age difference doesn't bother you or her then who cares...but i'm pretty sure her parents are going to hate you.
2006-11-22 14:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by faerydahlia3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember this, you can't help who you fall in love with.
2006-11-22 14:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋