my girlfriend cheated on me about a year ago. we are still together but sometimes i think about the past and when we fight i cant help but bring it up. she asks me why i cant trust her, and i tell her its because she has bad credit and thats something not easily forgetable. how can someone ever get past this?
2006-11-22 06:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by mikeD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can not trust her. She is what we in my country call and behind the camel humber. Go to someone else and maintain control over her and you will not have a problem with women treating you like a dog.
2006-11-22 06:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she did it and it still hurts... I don't honestly know if it is possible to get over something like this.. She hurt your heart and a hearts pain is not easy to mend and sometimes can't be... Just give it time and that might help and she shouldn't really be asking about trust... Ask her how she'd feel if you had went and cheated, and about how much trust there would be there after that...
2006-11-22 06:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you devide to truly forgive her you cant bring it up every time you fight if you think you cant get passed ir then you have yo break up is not go for either of you
Its hard to trust someone after they cheat but you have to decide
2006-11-22 06:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ingredient i wanna say is have confidence is an quite not ordinary ingredient to get lower back. fantastically once you ought to discover approximately it earlier they even admitted it to you. From adventure, it relatively is actual gonna be not ordinary to have confidence her lower back. yet once you like her that plenty and optimistically if she loves you alot too issues canwork out. it will take time nevertheless. i'm nonetheless not over my boyfriend cheating on me. each so usually, thoughts come into my head and that i won't be in a position to get them out... possibly that'll ensue to you, idk every person is distinctive. yet i say in case you extremely love her and be attentive to you may forgive her, provide her yet another hazard. a minimum of it exchange right into a random guy quite than somebody you the two knew. Neither you or her will in all probability by no skill see the dude lower back. yet so some distance as a thank you to overlook the region...I have not got any clue. i'm nonetheless engaged on it myself. All i gotta say is do what you gotta do. in case you like her alot, stay together with her.only be careful. yet do not bypass loopy careful like i did. yet its fantastically interesting that she's keen to bypass places basically with you. possibly it exhibits that she's keen to help and instruct you that shes sorry and he or she'll do greater valuable. And spend greater time together with her. I guess she misses you. And only instruct her you like her and spot if its nonetheless reciprocated. Relationships get greater stable over the years simply by fact now you get to confirm the real individual quite than what you observed in rose coloured glasses. My psych professor informed us that for the duration of the beginning up tiers of a relationship, ppl only see the beauty and overlook or overlook the undesirable aspects cuz your too distracted by utilising the domestic dog love. then after 2 years its lilke make it or harm it. you ought to take the stable with the undesirable. there is not any excuse for cheating yet i even have confidence in 2nd opportunities fantastically if the guy is extremely trustworthy of their apology. i'm hoping each thing is going stable for you. And check together with her, to not us. She's the sole one that could extremely provide you the delight of your question.
2016-10-12 22:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be complety honest. you cant its going to be something that says with you for a long time. trust me experience i dont trust cheaters, my moto once a cheater always a cheater. and its been true every single time. there is a reason for you to not be able to forget about this and it may be your inner voice telling you to watch out dont get hurt again.
2006-11-22 06:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats really hard to deal with. well i went throught the same thing about 2 years ago and what i di was dump him and start over
2006-11-22 06:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by ltigers16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant and I wont even try. It eats away at you. Why should I get stuck with someone who cheats ?? Why should they get treated better than they are treating me ??
2006-11-22 06:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok f u feel like that..the past still happened...if u cheat once..ur scared it will happen again
2006-11-22 06:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf went thru the same thing. and i know somtiems he thinks about it. and i know ithurts him. but hes nice enough not to bring it up. you might not know it.. but it kills us inside knowing we did that to you...dont be so hard on her. ok?
good luck.. and if she loves you enough she wont do it agian. i know i learned my lesson.
2006-11-22 06:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋