is it possible to love two persons at the same time?

Question

and is possible to choose when they are both also in love with you?

Answer 1

yes it is possible. but it;s also hard because there is no best choice. no matter which one you pick, you will still regret it because you love the other one too.
my suggestion is, take your pick but keep in mind there is no better pick if you;re truly in love with both of them.

Answer 2

You can like two people at the same time, but Love is a strong emotion, clearly you have to understand that you haven't thought out your feelings for these two people clearly. One person will benefit you more than the other will. I can't say how that will be, your going to have to decide that, but you need to take some time and think about things, instead of settling on the fact that your "in love" with two people.

I have two sides to myself, I'm a Gemini so I guess that's why, but, I too had a similar situation occur with me, and I realized that one was a mistake, it was more of a lust than Love and the guy that I genuinely loved, I didn't even think I loved him until I realized that he satisfied every aspect of what I was looking for in a relationship. So it's a bit tricky, but as long as you step outside of the box and take a look at things for what they really are, then you will know about who to love.

Also, you can't determine when someone is in love with you, it just happens, someone you may be seeing might be going through a similar funk as you. P.s. All that Polygamy bullshit is just bullshit, it's an excuse to get away with ****.. So..GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

It is more then possible, since very few concepts in this world are impossible. Love is a concept! You can't phyically see, hear, taste or touch it, but you know its there.

Not being affectionitely in love with more then one man/women is a man-made law/rule/idea!

Why is possible to love several children or cats for instance, but not love blonde B the same way you love blonde A.

As far as choosing, spend a week out of town with each one of them seperately of course! Reason, you don't know someone until you lived with them. Pay attention to habits and tendancies. One othe them has, does, or will do something that will drive you up the wall. Maybe that can be the tie breaker.

If your superficial like me, choose the one with the most money, best education, or prettiest mom! if her mom is ugly, she stands a chance of looking what way to.

Answer 4

Yes it is. In order to choose between the two, you need to look at their qualities from a third person point of view. Look at each of them as if they were going out with your friend or sister and formulate opinions about how each of them treat you and what their personalities are like.

You may always wonder if the one you don't choose is better than the one that you do, but that's what life is all about. Just don't second guess yourself. Remember, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, until you jump over the fence.

Trust your instincts. Trust yourself.

Answer 5

I think yes it is very possible to love two people at the same time. choosing is a hard one. Good luck, wish I could tell you more but i understand.

Answer 6

no, you do not know the meaning of love if there are 2. The second half of this question is pretty naive of you, you need to mature a bit more, in the mean time enjoy your time with these 2 girls, eventually they will both move on based on your feelings for both of them at the same time

Answer 7

Would they both be in love with you if they knew your heart is in two different places? That is a question you must ask yourself first. If the answer is "no", then you have a difficult choice to make, because it isn't fair to these guys.

However, if the answer is "yes" than you may have a very fun time ahead of you.

Answer 8

I just don't buy the idea.... we have only one heart and only a special someONE can get in and savor the feeling. If it that idea happens, it just shows that the person is confused where to push through (whether person A / person B). LIKE is different from LOVE remember? you can like a lot of girls or boys at the same time but you can't love them all at once specially when we're talking about special someone.... goodluck!

Answer 9

It's not only possible, it's almost required.
I love my wife, my daughter, my son, my mother, my brother, my sister, my best friend, my grandmother... with "love" being defined as caring about them so much that I'd gladly give my life to save any one of them.

"Romantic" love? Of course you can have it for more than one person at a time. There will almost always be more than one person that you feel attracted to, that excites you, that makes you feel good, that you want to have sex with, that you want to feel close to.

The real trick in a relationship is NOT only ever loving one person -- it's being able to commit to that one person (and be faithful to them) *despite* feeling love, lust, desire, etc. for other people during your life (and you WILL feel them). Society says (and it is a good idea, especially if children are going to be involved) that we should only be with one person -- how you choose that one is up to you, but you need to understand that you WILL have "love" feelings for other people all through your life, and it's your ability to stay faithful to the one you chose despite those feelings that defines your relationship, not your lack of love for other people.
Good luck.

Answer 10

Yes it is possible to love two people at the same time but not at the same density... We get confuzed with love. We just need to really dig deep and figure out who is really "The One" you really trully Love.