my uncle was in the hospital for a busted large intestine and he may not make it. I'm really upset, I want to go see him, but he's in ICU and wont let anybody in. What can I do? Can someone say something to cheer me up?
2006-11-22 06:12:30 · 13 answers · asked by Perfectly Insane 5 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Poor girl when do you get a break? I'm worried about ya.
I dont think that i can ease any pain that much because you obviously really care about him. But i think you could do this: Start writing a letter to your uncle, and the subject of the letter is 'remember being funny?' and try to think of the times he made you laugh and more importantly the times you made him laugh. Maybe this will help you realise how much you mean to your uncle, and not just how much he means to you. Even if you don't write the letter just thinking about it can remind you of the best times in your relationship. Dont let me put the smile on your face, let your uncle do it again :)
I hope I'm helping and not making it worse love, and I hope your uncle will make it through this and returns to just the way he was before!
2006-11-22 12:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !
By "Burst intestines" you may be meaning "perforation intestine" ..Though it is considered as "major" surgical problem, in the present era, there is nothing much to worry !
Definitely there is hope..all is NOT lost..dont worry..!!
cheer up and if you still feel so uncomfortable, consult your SURGEON and have a frant discussion with him, who will give you a definite picture..right ?
I am sure ..the surgeon knows the best..agree ?
2006-11-22 14:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by suresh k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray. You can visit him in the ICU but they might only let 1 or 2 family members go in. Best of wishes to your family and you.
2006-11-22 14:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Darcee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This just happened to my brother two months ago, and he's fine. Don't give up hope. You can visit him in ICU. My brother had lots of visitors while he was in there. Best of luck to you and your uncle.
2006-11-22 14:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 family members are aloud in at a time for 10 minutes every few hours. Don't give up hope medical mericles happen everyday. Just have a little faith.
2006-11-22 14:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by lribbeck1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw don't even worry about it, i'm sure he will be fine, they always say the worst when really the best comes out of it. they have been telling my family and i that my dad was going to die 10 years ago, he's still living and healthy. these doctors are crazy!
2006-11-22 14:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by rollindem20z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others who suggested prayer. With that said, the majority of these type of surgeries are successful nowadays, so have hope.
2006-11-22 22:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no right thing that could be said to you right now.
You're hurting right now and it will take time to work through it. Turn it over to God. Know there are people behind you. You don't have to go through this alone.
-God Bless
2006-11-22 14:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They let family in for short visits.
Be there when when the next visiting time comes around again.
It'll help you and your grandmother.
2006-11-22 14:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray for your Uncle. The Lord is always there for you and will answer your prayers.
2006-11-22 14:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋