Yes, probably a bad thing from the get go to claim I'm a nice guy, but I've heard it too often. "You're so nice." But from my experience it hasn't gotten me anywhere in the dating scene. Only heartache! More the friend than the lover seems to be the trend. Girls open up and talk to me about all sorts of things. There seems to be an interest on there part but only as far as friends go. Maybe I'm just too nice! Any thoughts or suggestions?
2006-11-22 06:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by Sparks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't change who you are, but realize that you might be going after the wrong types of girls (the ones who only want the bad boys). I have always gone for the bad boys up until I got ahold of one who was too bad... I got my fill. Now I appreciate a nice guy and that is all I want. I have no idea why we go after the rough type... maybe a little because they seem to be the type to stand up for something when needed. If you are the type to shy away from confrontation or let people walk over you the that could be the very reason right there. If that's not the case then hang in there and you will find the one that fits you.
2006-11-22 06:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the same thing that's up with girls who know how to treat a man getting treated like ****, while the ones that are complete bitches with their hands out all the time are the ones who get treated like a damn queen while they go around walking all over everybody in their path.
2006-11-22 06:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls always like bad boys, that like to tease her, flirt a lot in bad @$$ way. teasing always makes girls want more because they felt beautiful or felt wants to play revenge, i mean to give him back whatever he teased her. bad boys have that quality that makes girls dont get enough of him, thats what makes them come back.
im a nice guy too, a girl just broke my heart about a week ago yet theres nothing i can do.
2006-11-22 06:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by miv farizzet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the nice guys. yeah, i will admit there's something about bad @$$'s that makes me like them. but overall, i would much rather have a nice, caring guy.
2006-11-22 06:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE nice guys...unfortunately, it seems like whenever I find a nice guy he turns out to be not so nice...what's up with that? :( I love it when I'm able to open up to a guy...it makes me fall hard for him...
2006-11-22 06:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by helplesslyfalling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I like nice guys thank you very much I ani't into bad @sses
2006-11-22 06:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad guys have more intensity and suspense!
2006-11-22 06:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by *NANCY* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋