Are there any classes or anything I could do to learn. geez this is so embrassing.
2006-11-22 06:05:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, practice is good. But yeah, there are videos, sex help books. If you're too embarrassed to go and buy them outright you can buy them online.
2006-11-22 06:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***DO NOT WATCH PORN***
They are paid professionals...the positions are for your viewing pleasure, not for comfortable sex. And thats what its all about, you being comfortable, and above all else making your partner feel comfortable:)
***YOU MUST KNOW HOW TO PLEASE YOUR SELF FIRST***
Masterbate, It's healthy, and the more comfortable you are with yourself the more comfortable you will be in the company of the opposite sex, or same sex(to each his own).
***PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT****
With the AIDS epidemic growing out of control, find you a sex partner(ie gf), and do it as often as you can w/o it affecting your relationship. Once you get comfortable and you can somewhat control your orgasm, buy trojan ultra thin. They give you the feeling of being natural with the security of a latex condom. Trust me your partner will enjoy this much better than that big rubber boot.
Don't worry about your orgasm it will come(maybe faster than you would like). The main focus is to satisfy her. Don't worry about tryna make her come, bc she might tell you she did, but guess what....she didn't. Make sure she is comfortable. Ask her what she like/dislikes? And if she doesn't know then find out together. So in conclusion, just go with the flow, remember if she's comfortable then she will enjoy it, and will come back for more. "If you free your mind, and orgasms will follow" lol. Just be cool and remember always "Rap It Up!!!"
2006-11-22 06:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation. This will teach you what works for you and you can share that with your partner.
Go to some erotic movie sites on the web. Even a 10 second snipet can give you some ideas.
Books. There a number of these on the market.
Practice.
Try an older partner and be honest about your need to learn.
Good Luck!
2006-11-22 06:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice
2006-11-22 06:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to learn how to be a good lover is to concentrate on your partner. Be aware of what they like. The easiest way to figure it out is to be aware of what they do to you. Chances are what they are doing to you, and how they do it is what they like themselves! And yes there is a book for it, don't be embarrass to ask...that is how better lovers are born.. they ask, are aware, and ask some more...oh yeah, the name of the book is "The joy of Sex" happy reading:)
2006-11-22 06:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try wacking off 3or 4 times a day before having sex . Also try a little cuningalis . That helps her come off quicker and stronger .
2006-11-22 06:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by ajkastun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to be embarrassed about and having good sex takes lots of personal practice... No one is good when they first start having sex but the more experience you have the better you get...
2006-11-22 06:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is to ask your partner what they like and then practice - practice - practice
Just remember though what one person likes another may not so it is always good to be inquizative while in the bedroom - or kitchen - or living room - or wherever you happen to be doing it
2006-11-22 06:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 07:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the problem is. If its technique, you need more experiance. If youre too "quick on the draw" a little booze will boost your stamina. Cant get it up? I dont know... viagra maybe? It all depends on what the problems are.
2006-11-22 06:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋