I'm kinda embrassed for asking this question, but I had a break up that took me out of the dating game for a while. I loss a lot of confidence in myself and forogt the real reason why women liked me. How do I break the ice and get my feet wet. I really appreciate any help that anyone who swings or date could give me.
2006-11-22 06:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a single male, if your looking at swinging to help rebuild your confidence, you should look elsewhere. It is not easy as a single male to break into the swinging lifestyle.
Singles males are looked at with great suspect by swinging couples because many are married men posing as single to cheat on their wife. They think that swinger couples will do anything and that it is a 24/7 orgy. Nothing could be further from the truth.
One thing successful swingers are is very committed to each other and the relationship and most all will not contribute to the downfall of someone else's by giving them the avenue by which to cheat on their wife.
Second, there are many single guys trying to get with couples. Doing a quick search of a swingers dating site reveals in my state the ratio of single males to couples looking to play with single males is 1.125:1, so there are more horny single males trying to get with couples than there are couple looking for horny single males. So you'd have to really make yourself stand out from the crowd to get noticed by a couple.
Third, single males - because there are so many and so many are just lecherous - are not usually allowed to swinger parties. So getting in that way is difficult too. The single males that are allowed at swinger parties have proven themselves over time in the swinger community.
Your best bet really is try to find yourself a single girl. Sign-up on some other dating sites and start looking.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 10:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try going to a club or a bar at first and buy a person who you're interested in a drink. I'm sure after that everything will fall into place for you, and most of all be yourself.
2006-11-22 14:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by homeiggyred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a list of the best adult dating sites where you can find girls looking for CASUAL SEX in you area (or, if you want, in webcam chat).
Here is the link:
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2014-10-04 05:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of groups out there. Search the groups on yahoo, and find one in your area.
2006-11-22 14:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a tire, a long rope, and a tall tree.
Have fun!
2006-11-22 14:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Quest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Swinging is a sure way to destroy a relationship..
2006-11-22 14:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell you find out let me know so you won't be by yourself.
2006-11-22 14:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by haywardn32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try www.swingerslifestyle.com worked for us
2006-11-22 14:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Todd V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIND A TREE
2006-11-22 14:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to go to a swiming pool !!!!!!!
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2006-11-22 14:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋