It's been 2 months since he started. We chit chat, we smile. But he hasn't asked for my phone number yet. I've got a crush on him....and it's killing me!!!
2006-11-22 06:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by damesha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Casually go up to him and say "hey, wanna hang out sometime?" If he's at all interested in you, he'll say yes. Don't tell him that you think he's hot....not yet. Wait until you find out if he'll hang out with you. Sorta like a really casual date. If you and he go out for this "little date," and it's going well, THEN you can tell him what you think of him...how you think he's cute, etc. Be bold and upfront...guys love that! Good luck!
2006-11-22 06:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a group of people from work to go out and include him.
That way you get some time with him away from work, to see what he is like "in the real world"
You may find that you don't even want to see him after that. If it turns out you do, then try to get him away from the rest of the crowd.
2006-11-22 14:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by jrnwy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to interject some flirting and practice "Buying signals" so he knows you are interested.
Saying "hey, wanna hang out sometime?" only shows you as desperate. Don't do that. Show you're available without asking out directly.
However, there is an old saying: Don't crap where you eat.
2006-11-22 14:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is unsure if u like him in that way y dont u just take it up on urself and give it 2 him.Some guys love forward and blunt women
2006-11-22 14:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honostly most men will not want to get invloved with someone they work with. i make it a strict value of mine. i would never date a girl i work with regardless of anyhting. all it does is ruin things. he might feel the same, also he might be too shy cause if u were to turn him down he'd probably not wanna go into work cause he'll be embarassed
2006-11-22 14:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date on your job
2006-11-22 14:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's already taken or gay maybe your not attractive enough for him, you have to start flirting in a more obvious way or just get to know him better
2006-11-22 14:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to lunch, or dinner after work... and when you do wear something that's sexy but business appropriate...
2006-11-22 14:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is taking his time waiting on the right time so take yo time n stop getting so work up
2006-11-22 14:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you beautiful? sorry that was uncalled for. probably he,s just making friends and he likes you as a friend.
2006-11-22 14:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by super load 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋