is it ok
2006-11-22 05:58:49 · 23 answers · asked by Kaitlyn C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends- How long where they together? It it's under 6 months and they didn't have sex, I think it's ok.
2006-11-22 06:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. When someone tells you it is okay, then that's the last word on the subject even if they aren't telling you the truth and would really rather you not date their ex. Is it in good taste, however? Probably not. To me it would feel like sharing underwear. There may be things I'd learn I'd rather not know. Or even questions I'd wonder about - like am I a better kisser? Does he think she is prettier? Does he wish he was still dating her? Those questions wouldn't even come up if I found someone else to date instead of my best friend's ex.
2006-11-22 06:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by stevijan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i tell you if its wrong or not... ask yourself "why did they break up in the first place" then if you really care about your friend.. even if she says its ok.. its not... no matter what i almost lost a friend because i talked to one of her ex's even though she said it was ok.. all because we started liking each other.. so if u ask me its wrong.. and the second thing you have to ask yourself is "how long were they together.. and what all happened between them?" personally i couldn't date a guy who slept with my friend that would be weird... but thats my opinion and i'm sticking to it
2006-11-22 06:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay. Girls tend to be very emotional about things like this. Even if she gives you the thumbs up now she may change her mind the second she sees you two together, especially if things are going well between you and the boy. If she is a good friend it is not worth the price you will pay.
2006-11-22 06:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by loudmouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if your friend has ANY feelings for him. I would talk to her first and make sure she would be ok with it. Tell her the friendship is more important to you than this and get her ok. You would have to decide which one would be worth losing though. She might say it's ok and then avoid you feeling like you stabbed her in the back but if they guy is more worth it go for it.
2006-11-22 06:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is totally ok as long as her and him are completely over and she said it was ok for the 2 of you to date. I say go for it and give it all you got and good luck.
2006-11-22 06:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl100% 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is honey. And it is in bad taste.
There are other guys out there. Give it at least six months and then hook up with him if you still want to. By then your best friend has moved on and forgotten about him. Meanwhile you can always email me on Sypalmer1999@yahoo.co.uk.
Simon
2006-11-22 06:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by SIMON P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If permission is given, then it's okay.
Just make sure that the people around you know what happened, or else they will think you as a boyfriend thief.
And also if your best friend want her boyfriend back, then either share him or give him back. Tell your best friend that she can have her boyfriend back if she want it..
2006-11-22 06:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl who has been at the other end of the deal, she might say it's ok, but even if she's over him, she's gonna get so jealous it's not even funny.
2006-11-22 06:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! She might say that it is okay, but I doubt it really will be.
Would you like her to date one of your ex's.
It isnt TOO bad IF she hadnt slept with him and was only with him a matter of days. Otherwise STAY AWAY!!
2006-11-22 06:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋