I'm ugly and have no self-esteem,I tried a alot to work on it but it's useless,whenever I go out and see how people look at me or that no one wants to be with me just destroy everything I worked on.
I'm really depressed these days,I just lay on bed and listen to music,I'm studying dentistry and this is really affecting my study and I can't help it cuz I'm not in the mood to study,I have no motivation no dreams nothing.
plz tell me what should I do ????
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2006-11-22 05:58:02 · 12 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get down on yourself buddie. You have alot to offer then looks. Sound like your a smart guy. women love smart guys quit thinking your ugly. you need to be happy with who you are before your ready to meet anyone. trust me as soon as you are content with who you are people will see that. and will look at you differently. forget how people look at you those type of people shouldn't be givin the time of day and have nothing to offer.
Hey man you can email from here if you need something hit me up alright.
but get ouot of bed find something to do with you time ok
2006-11-22 06:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard and people are very rude. We all are put on this earth for a reason. Don't feel bad because there are people out here that look good but have an ugly personality. I am going through something what you are going through...it hurts alot. But, I am learning to ignore these people. Most of the time, the people who say or do evil things to you are feeling down about themselves. Focus on becoming a Dentist...that is your motivation. I am working on my Masters degree and soon I will be working on my PhD. I will not allow nasty people to stop me from achieving my goals.
2006-11-22 14:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should maybe think of anti-depressants and going on a couse to build your self-esteem.
I doubt that you are THAT ugly. Even if you are not the most attractive person, there will always be someone out there for you. There is someone in this world for everyone.
Dont let it get you down. If you are lacking in friends, join a social group, something that you are interested in. Or meet people online.
Each person has good and bad qualities. As long as you are a nice person, you will do okay. Regardless of your looks.
Be strong. It will all work out in the end.
2006-11-22 14:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these touchy-feely as$holes. Ok, you're ugly. Fine. Guys have to have one of three things to get a girl: A big muscular body/good looks, a sense of humor, or a fat wallet. The first two are out for you. Become a rich dentist and watch the chicks come running. I would also work out just in case Plan A fails.
2006-11-22 14:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get off your butt and go look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are someone and deserve the very best... Thinking your ugly and no good is the worst thing you can think about you... If you don't feel good about you, how in the world do you expect others to feel good about you??? they wont and will see this as they have... Even if you don't believe it, do it anyways and fake it till you make it, by looking in the mirror and doing this everyday you'll start to build that self confidence and a day will come when you'll no longer have to do that and believe it yourself...
2006-11-22 14:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to build up your self-esteem is say the Hell with everyone who does not accept you for who you are no matter how you look
You don't want to have friends or be associated with people who are going to pull you down because of your physical nature - it's what is inside a person that makes them attractive to others and if they can't see that
Then the hell with them - you'll be better off without them
You will meet someone that accepts you for who you are and when that day comes it will be the best day of your life
2006-11-22 14:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a psycologist. They will be able to help you with your depression. Ugly is in the eye of the beholder. Once you talk to someone in psycology, you will feel better, and then you can work harder on studying.
2006-11-22 14:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no body is ugly to me
to me a ugly person to me is the person behaver.
so u r not ugly,
there r someone for everybody in this world so the way u see urself it will be the same way people will see u.
try to see urself as an beautiful person and believe pleople will know this
u r not ugly, a person behaver is ugly
2006-11-22 14:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your first problem is saying your ugly, you cannot have any self esteem if you believe that, you need to carry yourself better, if you believe your ugly then so will the world, if you have better thoughts of yourself then other people will too, smile and the world will smile back.
2006-11-22 14:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you look like, if you have self-confidence it will speak volumes. Work on you first, then you can work on creating relationships with others.
2006-11-22 14:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋