We fight all the time and he is very selfish. I work all the time and he works sometimes. I find myself paying for everything and never doing anything for my self. I do without so my boyfriend can have everything he wants.
2006-11-22 05:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Rhi Rhi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a Life, and Move on
2006-11-22 05:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by no_stiff_competition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna save this relationship?
you argue and you'l give up whatever it takes so he can have something... hmmmm doesnt sound like any way to be happy!
a relationship takes 2 not 1 and i think you should tell your boyfriend this.. for your sake, cause if it was to carry on it sounds like he could relie on you and if your fed up with it now why on earth would you want that in the long run?
Take take taking doesnt make the world go round! your better off without him!
x
2006-11-22 13:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u being calculative ? if you truly love him , you wouldnt be thinking of what you are paying n what he is not , how much n how little . . . tell him that you feel , you are contributing more compared to him and you would want a fair share in the relationship . does he get everything you want ? try putting yourself in his shoe . . ;) in a relationship , it should be we & us not i . . n fighting in a relationship is great . i love to fight with my hubby . it just makes us crazier for each other at the end of the fight , even though we made each other angry .
2006-11-22 13:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by ver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to WAKE UP! This guy is clearly using you and you are letting him get by with it! Do yourself a favor and dump him. You deserve someone so much better- you need to take care of yourself before others. Your boyfriend sounds like a loser- dump him, move on with your life- find a better guy, and let him dupe some other girl. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-22 13:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself Why do you want to save this relationship?
Are you afraid to be alone? You should not be because you can take care of yourself better than he can.
Love yourself first. Being alone is better than being with a jerk.
But if you must, try to have a quiet conversation about this situation, if he refuses to discuss and compromise, MOVE ON.
2006-11-22 13:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tomo718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he sounds like a moocher.....The roles should be reversed, the guy should be taking care of the lady.....However if times are hard right now for the guy then that is another story ONLY IF he is making a valid effort to correct the problem, if not, move on, he a loser
2006-11-22 13:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you find yourself doing this for the rest of your life? if yes then save the relationship. do whatever he says. if you want to have any self respect, then talk to him. tell him what bothers you. if there's no change then get the f out. you don't deserve to be treated like this.
2006-11-22 13:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by phantasmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up off the ground and stop being a door mat.
be a strong woman and not a weak little girl. Move on .
2006-11-22 13:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to save the relationship. Tell him to change or tell him goodbye. If your worried about love, dont worry, because you can aways find love somewhere else.
2006-11-22 13:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesnt sound like a relationship worth saving. Dump the freeloading bum and take care of yourself, then find someone that can take care of themselves.
2006-11-22 13:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋