this girl i like is really shy and she makes it real hard to talk to her so what can i do to make her relax and loosen up?
2006-11-22 05:22:23 · 10 answers · asked by hector c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her a shooter it should get her more talketif or do some real funny stuf she might like you because you so funny.
2006-11-22 05:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by manuel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just try and do little things as an acquaintance, like say hi to her whenever you see her in the hallways, but don't put it into stalker mode by seeming overly anxious. It could be she's just not used to you trying to be friends with you, so give her a little bit of space, but make sure to make it effiable that you like her without telling her. If she starts accepting your acquaintance-ship then try and put it into friend mode. Flirt around with her and invite her to hang out a few times. It may be possible she just doesn't like you in that way and is just trying to break that to you, so don't get your hopes up to high, be a bit of a stalker or do anything else that might embarrass you, while at the same time try and make sure she knows you like her without making it too obvious in a bad way (example: telling you love her every second).
2006-11-22 13:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters change avatar, make happy. naa listening is the best thing. Start by small talk like nice comments about her that she lets stands out when with you. Do not point out her quietness in a group but include her in as if she said something by turning towards her in a convo. and nodding or tap her on side of arm and say" you know what I mean" and dont forget to smile.
2006-11-22 13:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by SPCrod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You relax, show confidence, be a man (Not a jackass). Eventually she'll fell the same way. We are monkeys and we copy what we see. Be an Alpha and guide her behavior not by telling her but by acting "cool". She wont be the only one feeling comfortable around you, you know what I mean?.
2006-11-22 13:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by head_blown_apart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her call you at home. That will take a lot of the pressure off her. Be gentle with her while she's "figuring you out." Once she's comfortable with you. She'll probably look for you in the halls.
2006-11-22 13:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it seems as if your are rushing things, stop being ignorant she will when she can trust me and i hope when she does you don't write next week how can i get this girl to shut up. ha ha ha ha ha anyways be patient she can talk probable she is playing hard to get or she is trying to give you a good impressing of her that she is always quite don't worry she is coming.
2006-11-22 13:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hanig with her on your own and get to know her. then we she sees you with your friends she wont be as shy.
2006-11-22 13:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her when she is with her friends just in case she needs backup
and also, when you talk to her... talk casually
2006-11-22 13:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her some jokes....start off with... will you marry me?
2006-11-22 13:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time. let her get used to you...
2006-11-22 13:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Top_secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋