i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and he loves me to death i kind of feel that same way i kind of don't but he has been confessing alot of the things so he can start to do right by me and he said that he have three baby mommas and that they are all like right behind each other so i don't know what to do i want to stay wit him but i can not deal with one let alone three baby mommas so what do i do
2006-11-22 05:20:31 · 27 answers · asked by miss2chi_town 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL, thats one of the hardest things to deal with. Babies and their mommas!! Unless you they are nice and not bit***s that are jealous because you are with him and hes not with them. So if you want to be with him you will have to deal with it. Its all about what you can and want to put up with.You might have to put her in her place a few times before its all over with. Then you have to worry whos side he will take. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 06:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by bbwg_hbic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea- This should have been NEED TO KNOW UP FRONT INFORMATION. the Fact that he is sharing this info this late in the game is a deal breaker. He was hiding it, so he either feels bad or thinks you wouldnt like him. But he shouldnt have had 3 babys mommas in the first place. Something is wrong with this guy, get out before you become the fourth!
2006-11-22 05:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, your boyfriend appears like a winner. He did not see his son for 2 years?? there is not any excuse for that, fantastically if all he had to do became get his *** up and bypass see him. it really is incredibely stressful to me. My ex-boyfriend did not see his son for 7 years and would whine and cry each and every of the time about how disenchanted he became over it. LIE!!!!! As a mom, if someone took my daughter away and does no longer enable me see her. . . the hell with that! i'd come across a way. i imagine you ought to guage what that asserts about his personality previously you your self has children with him. If he is going by the courts he will maximum in all probability might want to pay a lot extra baby help than he's at the moment paying, if he's even paying any. yet dealing with the courts is the very perfect element to do, because with out any legal rights, his ex can surely call each and every of the photos. As for his ex. . . you'll regrettably continually might want to manage her. My perfect recommend to you is to easily ignore it or snort about it and do purely not communicate such as her. Your boyfriend has a baby such as her, no longer you, so there is not any reason you would possibly want to communicate such as her or be round her, fantastically if that's purely scary you.
2016-11-29 09:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, don't become another of his babys mommas. If it is too much for you than let him down easy. Sounds like he came with allot of baggage. Are you strong enough to help him carry all of that. He needs to learn how to carry it by himself cause it looks like he is not doing such a great job or there would just be one and not 3 mommas. Your choice girl hope you make the right one, for you, not for him. Good luck.
2006-11-22 05:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by melkhel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need the Drama?WoW 3 babies mommas.He seems to know how to get the babies, but not keep the family.You said he's told you about them, so you were warned.And he will let you know this on several occasions in the future.Sounds like he likes to have more than one partner at the same time.Think long before you leap......
2006-11-22 05:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him well i guess you may have to slowly accept them as a part of your life. It may take some time, but if you both were meant to be then he may need your support in this aspect of his life.
All I ask is that you do not become just another "baby momma"
2006-11-22 05:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by ludacrusher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man baby momma drama, that sucks, how about if you want go find a dude that isn't the male version of Bebe.
2006-11-22 05:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ross B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant handle him having three babies with three different women then dont waste his time. tell him how you feel and tell him you care for him alot and want him to find the right person but seeing as you cant handle three babies and their mommas that person must not be you.
2006-11-22 05:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. If you stay you will be number four and there is sure to be a number five. Besides he will likely be paying child support for his other children. How will he be able to pay to take care of you and your baby? I think you are better off without him. He is a player!
2006-11-22 05:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by mtnman717us 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out now! Baby drama sucks but times 3 ! plus it shows what kind of man he is. forget trying to do the right thing now, what about the last 3.
it a pattern don't get caught in it!!
2006-11-22 05:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋