nervous wreck?

Question

whenever im around my bf..i get really nervous. ive known him for a really long time..but since we have been going out..its like i can never think of anything to say. and if u were to talk to my friends they would say i never shut up. so its really wierd for me not to say anything. i dont want him to get the idea that i dont like him...it just that i dont kno what to say to him

Answer 1

Yes,it happens and you dont have to worry about it.Just be honest to your BF and tell him that your mind gets blank when you talk to him.i had been through this and overcame it.i know that there are plenty of things you wanna discuss with him.i mean the topics are endless but when he is out there with you,you go blank.the best thing to do is to make a note about what you really wanna talk with him.memorize the topics in your mind.when you are around your bf just bring it out,one after another.dont have to hurry.everyday before going to bed,make a list contaning at least 3-4 topics,important ones which you wanna discuss the very next day.more than 4 topics may cause confusion or loaded.whenever you get an oppurtunity to talk with your bf,get started with these topics you have on your mind,and the conversion will flow smoothly.coz later,other topics will naturally follow.this will take little time,but ,when you are over it,you will realise that you are comfortable bringing up topics all by yourself without making any list or memorize.Talk about some common interests so that it will be easier for him to pick and ellaborate it.

Answer 2

just pretend he's another of your friends (and should be)..simple enough

Answer 3

im da same way

Answer 4

i think you are just a little bit fearful near him

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