so tell me i need to now
2006-11-22 05:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by lis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we fall in love and it doesn't make since because we are surprised at the personn we fell in love with. Or you aren't sure that u actually like the person
2006-11-22 05:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by jeremy1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we aren't really falling in love - its more "lust" than love, I imagine. At least, it was for me. Usually, when it doesn't make sense or the relationship never really clicked, it was not love - more of an infatuation, strong liking, or lust.
The reason I say lust is that when we first set eyes on someone, we are attracted to them, physically. It is part of the process our hormones utilize in the nature game. Once we get to know the person, we find that there is a strong like for them due to their character. If we play out the physical part and fulfill the lust, when we are done, we often find out that we didn't like that person THAT much. For instance, I went out with a guy I had met; he was attractive, tall and had a beautiful smile. We talked and he made me laugh. We took it to the next step, became intimate and right in the middle of it, my attraction for him disappeared. Of course, I knew I was not in love with him from the start, but during the course of intimacy, I knew there would be nothing else.
So, when you feel you are in love, check to see that it is not lust or just that really strong like. If you find that maybe you don't like the way a person chews his/her food or laughs and you still like them, you're doing good. Love will surpass all the little idiosyncrasies about a person that will drive you nuts if you didn't like them.
2006-11-22 13:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We fall in love because we're humans. we need that feeling of felling special or that i can care for someone and that person can do the same.
2006-11-22 13:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by maeseason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it's just part of life that we are just going to have to live with and we build from or mistake thats the only way that humans or for that mater any animal lears from thing they do and what happens so you just have to keep going
love is just somethingx that happens
2006-11-22 13:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea. sometimes i fall in love with a new guy every 2 weeks... so i'd also really like to know the answer to your question...
2006-11-22 13:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Top_secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT suppose to make sense.
That's why the expression leading with your heart, and NOT with your brain comes from.
It's NOT logical.
2006-11-22 13:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats what people do. fall in love. and then they cant get back up.
2006-11-22 13:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by hello12345678910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is something that is not suppose to make sense, it never has and never will.
2006-11-22 13:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by tigerlily7345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fate & destiny
everything happens for a reason.
2006-11-22 13:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is much in life that doesn't make sense
deal with it
2006-11-22 13:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋