She's tried B4. I want to help her not sure where to start tried talking to her
2006-11-22 05:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by blondeicehockeyfan 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Please refer her to a psychiatrist or social worker, pronto! When she's emotionally so far gone, the best thing is for an experienced professional to help her deal with things. Even an anonymous helpline can go a long way to helping her. If her family is involved, everyone around her can make a concerted effort to be supportive and even force her to do what's best for herself. She needs to know life is still worth living, and the best way is for those who love her to assure her and help her, no matter how difficult.
People suffering from depression can be REALLY hard to deal with, but we must remember that by the time they're suicidal, their sense of logic has already taken a turn. Telling them they're selfish will only do more harm because it will make them feel even more worthless.
2006-11-22 05:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Andromeda_Carina 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is in immediate danger, you can call 911. They will take her to the hospital.
If you are in high school, talk to a trusted teacher or guidance counselor. If you are both adults, you can try to convince her to get help. Talk to someone at the county mental health clinic for advise on where she can go and how she can pay for it. You can also call the suicide hot line for advice on how to talk to her.
Ask her directly if she is thinking about hurting or killing herself. If the answer is yes, then she is in immediate danger and you need to take immediate action. Call 911 to get her to the hospital. Try not to promise her that you will not tell anyone, but if you do make that promise it's ok to break it. It may take a while, but eventually she will forgive you and possible even thank you for it.
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2006-11-22 13:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
often this can be a cry for help, maybe shes feeling alone and scared. when people are depressed this time of year (Christmas) can aggravate these feelings. Let her know you love her despite what she may have said and if shes going to be alone this xmas arrange something for her to look forward to. Get her to the doctors asap and they will give her some medication, explain that you would like to go with her so you can make sure the gp gives her the correct treatment and diagnosis. you are very brave admitting this. keep strong for her and she will get well soon, you know what they say, you need to hit rock bottom to come back up xxx
2006-11-22 13:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by louise 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make her a nice wee card or drop her a note when she's least expecting it if she is not ready to talk just now then you can't force the issue but you can let her know that you are available when she is ready. She is lucky to have you and I hope thing's go OK. Good Luck !
2006-11-26 11:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-22 13:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to promise you that if she feels like harming herself or suicidal that she will telephone you first before she makes that decision. That way, you always know if she has hit rock bottom or if you need to contact someone else.
Talk to her about her problems, try to help her make changes in her life as sometimes changes help even if they don't solve the problem.
2006-11-22 14:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by hornyheluk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alert her partner,family, and other friends but don't carry the weight yourself and it is not clear where you live but in the UK call Samaritans and in other countries check your phone book for suicide lines and your a good friend for doing this but seriously suicidal people find a way and it will never be your fault ok?
2006-11-22 13:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by william john l 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she needs serious help in way of the mental health team or something similiar, if you are really worried get her to the local hospital before she actually does it properly.if it can wait get her to the doc and explain what has been going on good luck
2006-11-22 15:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by A G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is all than can be done for now. Just monitor and keep de-stressed. If she does attempt, get the authorities involved. That will get her the help she needs.
2006-11-22 13:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sophist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is it that she is having problems with? You may just want to talk to her about that and tell her that you are there for her and that you will help her in anyway. Let her know how important she is to you and that you are willing to be there for her.
2006-11-22 13:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by rebelettekusmc 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋