I'm trying not to be, but it's so hard. I have two little cousins and they are four. My grandparents love them to DEATH and they are the centar of EVERYTHING. I was never the main "thing" but they used to talk about me some before lilah and lauren came. I'm not trying to act jealous but I feel SO left out all the time. My grandparents are thinkin' about movin' to where they live so they can be closer to lilah and lauren and they won't include me. Me and my grandmaw have a bond, a very BIG and strong bond but when Lilah and Lauren are around she lets me hit me, bite me, pinch me, scream at me, and everything else, also pulling my hair!
Our bond is fading away and since I have no mom and my dad is not the "best" she is the only thing I have. I've tried talking to her but she just says I'm jealous of them and fuses at me!
I don't know what else to do, I feel so left out and she never pays attention to me anymore. It's like she don't even care about me, and I don't exist.
Help!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 04:41:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds to me like you are just a little jealous. Your grandparents are probably showing the younger kids the same love they showed you when you were young. I always thought my grandmother liked my cousins better than my sister and me. She went on and on about them. After she passed, I was talking to my cousins and they felt the same way, because she talked about my sister and me to them...all I know is that I miss her.
Go hug your grandmother and tell her you love her and she is what you are thankful for this year. You can't ever force anyone to love you, but sometimes you can love them into submission! Good luck, and Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-22 04:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to Lauren and Lilah's folks about it. Put it to them just like you put it on Yahoo. You grand maw is starting to treat you like you're an outsider, because of their little rug rats.
Tell them, yes you're jealous, you had her all to yourself before. Now things are drastically different. Ask them what they think, and if maybe they can talk to granny for you.
Maybe they can help. It's worth a shot.
2006-11-22 04:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me you exist .... your little cousins need more attention ... thats all .. try doing some activities with them so they won't bite,hit,pinch etc to you ... plus it will also give your grandmither a break from them ...
2006-11-22 04:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by common sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sitting and talking things out be nice and calm about it if that dont work then im not sure what to tell u
2006-11-22 04:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by swpa_couple15301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋