2006-11-22 04:37:59 · 20 answers · asked by barbel_basher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's been with her for ten years, she's done it before but he never believed me, this time i've got proof...I cant wait to see the *****'s face
2006-11-22 04:48:19 · update #1
you can all slate me i dont care, he has a right to know that his girl is a dog
2006-11-22 04:50:32 · update #2
You are such a good friend. You framed this love rat of a girl friend, and even put yourself in a horrible situation to prove how bad she really is. Well done you!
I'm sure your friend will congratulate you on your courage when you tell him you slept with the love of his life, that he has been with for a decade!!
2006-11-22 05:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well For one thing If you were planning a relationship with thegirl, and she agreed then youd have too but its not gonna be pretty, so plan it on a day when he has other friends around to help support him and to hold him back from kicking both your asses.
Also since you've caused the Chaos you need to plan to stay at a friends house. for a week and stay away from the girl.too
#2 If your telling him to let him know his girls a cheater and don't plan to be with her, same deal
#3 If she has other lovers Repeat step one.
#4 If she broke it off with you because of her guilt , then leave it alone..... what he doesn't know can't hurt him and he will probably stay with her and stop talking to you. Also I all fairness you should start distancing your self from him altogether.
#5 If your feeling guilty, stop the cheating, and tell her she needs to hit the road or your gonna tell him about the 2 of you, reason being she is a hooker and bones men regualry not just you.
if this is the first time she cheated then Leave it alone.
You had no business starting this in the first place
STOP CHEATING ITS WRONG no matter who its with.
2006-11-22 04:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your best mate are good friends, telling him the truth for starters would not hurt, it would be better in the long run, because if he finds out through the grapevine then you may not like what he might have to say to you. If he is any kind of a friend he will hear you out especially when you tell him the girl was having an affair with someone else. Let him know what your intentions were and that you did not mean to do any harm. Talking to him no one else is around might help cut any tension that will surround you when you talk to him, after you tell let him have to time to take everything in and if accepts your apology and wants to forget about what happened then, your good to go. If he says he will never fogive and does not want to talk to you anymore then you know that the friendship was not meant to be and you know you can move and make a new friend who will be more understanding in the future.
2006-11-22 04:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are the King Of Honesty and ready to lose him as a friend...Then go right ahead and tell him.
If the guy was not you that she was cheating with, the answer would be to tell him for sure if you knew she was cheating. BUT! She's cheating with you. Why try to look out for his best interest when it is YOU that she's behind his back with?
I suggest stop screwing around with her!
2006-11-22 04:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want out of the relationship just tell her. If your friend hasn't believed you in the past it's probably because he doesn't want to. The other possibility is that maybe you are the one in the dark. What if he does know you are together,but you don't know, he knows. Maybe they have an open marriage and just haven't felt the need to clue you in on that. If you tell him and he does listen are you prepared to loose this friend, cause I don't see how he could look you in the face, if he really doesn't already know.
2006-11-22 04:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have told him BEFORE you started fooling around with her. If you tell him now, he's going to have a go at the both of you.
My advice is drop her ***. Then if you have to, threaten to choke her lights out if she tells him about the two of you. Your friendship with him should have been more important to you anyway.
2006-11-22 04:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by peter n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!
you were wrong to cheat. hurting him by telling him would do no one any good. you do not have the right to hurt this "friend" anymore than you already have. you know the girl is no good. end it with her and they will eventually come to an end, if she doesnt tell him just to hurt him
2006-11-22 04:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by snickerdoodle30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would want to know who she is cheating with and then he would be mad at you too. Why would you do that to a friend anyway?
2006-11-22 04:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but you should also tell him that you are not truly his best friend because your sleeping with his girlfriend.
2006-11-22 04:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you don't sound like much of a "best mate."
2006-11-22 04:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by spirittamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋