I ended a 2 yr and 1/2 relationship 2 wks ago impulsively i just got mad and said the magic words,So last Friday when i tried getting back with my [X] he told me he needs time to think about us about the way he acts and the way i act and just the way his life is going since hes been going through hard times. So should i give him the time and space he says he needs.? Its hard really hard when all he does is call me and text me daily and tell me he loves me and wants to be with me but not to incist on getting back with him because he will tell me when hes ready. what does he mean if he loves me why have time off?
*let me add the break up wasnt because of cheating or lying it was more like he got on my nerves because he was acting childish and the words just sliped out of my mouth..
2006-11-22 04:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he said that he needs time to think, and you want him back, then play hard to get---give him time to think---don't take his calls--he'll come running
2006-11-22 04:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have been taught a valuable lesson. Always choose your words wisely and don't react so harshly. You can't just say things and then take them back. I can understand why he is wanting to take some time to think about your relationship, cause if you can just end it like that over something as stupid as him acting childish, how serious about him are you. Give him his time that he needs, make sure you let him know how poorly you feel about what you did, and hope that he give you another chance. I would feel the same way he does if a guy did that to me.
2006-11-22 04:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, and give him space. I hate to say this but when you dump a guy it damages the ego. I know I have a rule once she ends it it's over, there's no going back. Who wants to be reminded of having their ego crushed? I think you made a bad mistake and now you just might have to live with it.
2006-11-22 04:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself in a pickle dear. Give him time, and DO NOT inundate him with calls, he obviously loves you.If the break up was about something stupid and if your bond with him is strong then you two will overcome this. It is what it is, just let it play out and be cool. Good luck.
2006-11-22 04:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still texting and calling, then he is still thinking about you. Give him the time he needs. I think if you are having problems, it is wise to take some time apart. I wouldn't worry until you stop hearing from him.
2006-11-22 04:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants time to think about it, then you should ask for a date by which time he will have made a decision. During that time, you should stop taking his calls.
2006-11-22 04:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him to stop contacting you while he thinks. Say you either want a boyfriend, or a breakup.
2006-11-22 04:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋