2006-11-22 04:30:54 · 22 answers · asked by Shauna O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just lay there and enjoy it
2006-11-22 04:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes it is possible so long as you both take your time. Make it romantic. Get in the mood. Do lots of foreplay. It is possible that you still have the hymen intact. It's a thin layer in the vagina. This will break if it has not already done so and you may see some blood during the very first time. But do not be alarmed. It is normal.
This should be an enjoyable time for you both, please don't stress over it. Practice makes perfect!!
2006-11-22 12:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure there is pleanty of forplay so you are well lubricated..
If you are too nervous or have some problem with lubrication
the first time, bring something like KY jelly or some other personal lubricant....Start by opening & stretching yourself with your fingers at first....His penetration should be slow & gentle...
I have found that the woman on top for the first time allows her
to let herself down at her own pace and control the penetration
much better which also reduces her fear of pain...And the pain is
not really very bad at all....
2006-11-22 12:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't really hurt that bad but then again I have a high tolerance for pain. I think you should just calm down, take a couple deep breaths, and an advil or two always works.
2006-11-22 12:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you realy sure you want to...do it? from your picture you look like sutch a beautiful and respectable girl way loos all that unless you gonne get married to this guy. you know your innossens is not someting you can buy back. i realy hope that you will make a smart disition and not become stupid like alot of this teenagers. who think sex is cool because they just make sex shamefull and ugly it should be beutiful and a memmory always tressured your first time. doesnt realy hurt that bad gifing burth hurts a lot more and std`s someting always haunting. good luck pleas think smart!!!
2006-11-22 12:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by manuel j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st you have to be RELAX and don't think about it as if it's painful thing..no
the key to be good is to have a loving and caring person
2nd kissing and making out ease it very much and the other person should kiss you and keep touching you body..tongue breasts and parts that help you to reach orgasm.
then finally ejection slowly at first
the key is PASSION and ROMANCE then sex will be normal and great
2006-11-22 12:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by the passionate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lubrication and Taking things very slow and easy.
If you finger yourself, and slowly press against your "lips" to strech them helps too. Have to do it more than once. A little each day to ease things and prepare yourself.
and make sure to relax. If you're tense it will affect things. Relax take it slow. Have him calm you with a massage first.
2006-11-22 12:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tim H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldnt be THAT bad. Does your partner know that its your first time? If not, tell him. If he is a GENTLEMAN he will take it easy on you. If you really think it is gonna hurt, take a tylenol/advil before you do it.
XOXOXO
~Calicohottie
2006-11-22 12:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by calicohottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a guy with a small pecker OR make sure the guy your with is very gentle and you are well lubricated...making love is supposed to be enjoyable not rushed. good luck!
2006-11-22 12:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear that chloroform and rohypnol are excellent for this manner of problem.
Good luck honey!
2006-11-22 12:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
drinks lots and lots of beer sou dont feel anything
2006-11-22 12:41:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋