hi, i need deliverance from fear, im like socially anxious and low confidence at times, can Jesus cure this?

Question

im 25 m, and suffer this daily,

Answer 1

Fear is a demon. Like Alcoholism and Sexual Promiscuity. My friend, just going to a church service alone will not cure this, and simply asking God to help you may not work. Why? Because you need to find out what it is you are scared of socially. do you believe in God at all? If so, then you can recieve delieverance from fear.
Ask a minister or pastor in private and they can guide you out of the pestulance of the demon of fear and anxiety.
If you are saved and have been baptized in the holy spirit (THIS DOES NOT REQUIRE WATER BAPTISM BUT IT IS A GOOD IDEA AS AN OUTWARD SYMBOL OF AN INWARD CHANGE)... then you can denounce the demons yourself.
"In the name of Jesus Christ, I command you demon of fear, to leave me at once and I ask that the Holy Spirit might comfort me and give me resolve to no longer be anxious and Afraid. In all these things I pray, in Jesus's Name, Amen."
And remember to always end "in Jesus's name"... it's not ettiquete, its a requirement. The prayer can't get to God if you don't pray THROUGH the Son first.
"I am the way, the truth and the light. No one comes to the father but through the Son"
Psalm 23 is fantastic for this. Memorize it and LOVE it, live it.

Answer 2

Fear is a big word...And only what you make of fears...The only thing you need to ever fear is God..And His judgement..Yes Jesus can cure this.When you fill this fear what ever it is just start whispering Jesus name Jesus Jesus over and over and over till it leaves you...May take 1 time or 60 times but don't stop till it goes away.Confidence is something we have to build our self.And by helping to do this you have to hope and place ones confidence in those who trust the Lord.Ps 37:3. Listen to me you are as good as the next person.No one is better then you.Jesus would not have you suffer this for nothing.This is Satan having you suffer this.And you have to realize this to get it gone.When you start to fill this way.You tell your self that Jesus would not have Me felling this way for nothing.You do as I have told you about whispering His name and it will get this gone from yourself.You have to know this that Satan is trying to slow you down.Because He knows you are a child of God....So dont give into it stand strong...You are being tempted...Jesus loves you and cares...Jesus never leaves us it is us that strays from Him When their is things going own like this that is why it happens because we drop our trust in Him.Because Satan Knows your weaknesses Just Like God dose.Try this this is what got me out of depression.May the Lord Shine His light own you And He has His arms around you through this...All things are possible with Jesus But with out Him we are Lost and confused...God bless the U.S.A. and all...

Answer 3

Your Social Anxiety Level: 80% You have high social anxiety. You have a pretty serious social phobia, and it effects your life more than you may realize. It's possible that you've made yourself comfortable by avoiding situations you dread. But don't be fooled - you still probably need professional help.

Answer 4

What will help you is within your own capabilities.

Pick up a book called "Psycho Cybernetics'.

Basically, though, here's the gist of it:

Your brain doesn't know the difference between a "real" event and one that you vividly imagine. They are both recorded as "real" memories.

Your brain keep a record of everything that you encounter or experience, including emotional reactions to things, physical reactions to things, and so on.

The main purpose of your brain is to keep you unharmed. Therefore, the things that get recorded with a "flag" and put into an associative database are threats (including the emotional reaction of fear, along with all the physical symptoms). These are the most important things to watch for (situations in which you could experience harm) so they get HIGH priority.

Here's the way it works: you go into a social situation, and *automatically* your brain goes into the associative database of previous social situations to check for threats in any similar situation. If you've had uncomfortable or embarrassing or fearful reactions in social situations before, those will automatically be pulled up and you'll start to experience the physical symptoms of nervousness.

Here's the beauty part - you can override those records by outnumbering them.

You settle yourself down in circumstances where you won't be disturbed, and you're calm. You vividly imagine yourself in a social situation (with as much detail as possible) introducing yourself confidently, speaking easily with others, picturing the reaction of others as positive toward you...etc.

You do this a lot. You vary the social situations in which you imagine yourself being calm and confident and well-received.

Eventually, you'll have put more of THAT kind of memory into your associative database than there are of the awkward, embarrassing, fearful memories.

What that will result in is that as you contemplate going into a social situation, you'll notice that you're calm; when your brain went into the associative database, it came up with a "no harm" result..

Other than that, I recommend that when you are in social situations you focus on the other people there - its amazing how attractive people find it when someone takes a real interest in them. If you ask other people about themselves, and listen attentively, they will most likely find you quite charming.

Here are some good "follow-up" questions once you've asked someone what they love to do, or how they know the host of the social situation, or whatever.

"How did you get interested in that?"

"I don't really know much about ___________, tell me more"

Also, make sure you get enough sleep, eat well, and drink enough water. Being physically debilitated or mal-nourished will contribute to your feelings of unease.

I hope this helps. I used to be *terrified* of social situations, and I'm not anymore. I used the technique I've described to you (and which is given in far more detail in the book I recommended above), and now I have no nervousness about social situations.

Answer 5

if you can believe in any religion that has a reasonably positive message, then you may be able to brainwash yourself into feeling calm/confident quite often. unfortunately, Christianity is quite implausible and will only get more implausible as time goes by. It seems to be coming apart at the seams already in the U.S. if you ask me.

Try just coming up with your own positive beliefs to focus on. Life is temporary and when it is over, all experience ends. I think this is important to realize daily. We are not permanent, but we can contribute to society in the hopes that society is much more permanent than we are.

And here's the real reason I'm answering... some (mostly dietary) advice on how to alleviate your suffering a little:

anyone who is depressive should take a good multivitamin most days with a meal. while you are at it take a calcium-magnesium-zinc pill, unless by some miracle you get enough calcium. (or you take a calcium-based antacid) also, get lots of beneficial fatty acids - particularly omega-3. take a couple grams of fish oil daily if you can't find enough dietary sources.

then try getting lots of sunlight. get some vigorous cardiovascular exercise as often as you can. practise good posture and learn a little about basic yoga postures and t'ai chi warmups.

eat a varied very high protein, high fiber diet low in saturated fats and refined carbs. shun additives and preservatives. you want fresh whole foods, not overcooked. eat leafy greens and colourful vegetables. eat tree nuts,eat fish, eat more fish, the more nutritious fruits (berries, etc.), herbs, legumes, and some grains. don't eat sweets or drink sweet/sour drinks. instead eat fruit. diet really really really matters. it has a slow cumulative effect.

stay hydrated. this can be a matter of simply avoiding certain foods that dehydrate you. try to get plenty of regular, restful sleep.

that's all that comes to mind. you might wanna check if you notice any effect from ginseng pills. If you use caffeine, try 3 weeks off. If that's no good, consider optimal dosage and timing relative to work/sleep.

Answer 6

fear is a demonic spirit

the bible says "God has not given you a SPIRIT of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind."

I am overcoming fear myself at many levels. It is something that really takes time. You may want to look into a book by Gary Whetstone called "Make fear bow". You can get it at www.gwwm.com or i think you can get it on amazon.

Spending time with God really helps also because His precense can heal you and he can also let you know what will help you. If you have not met Jesus as your saviour you can ask him in your heart today and he can help you overcome this situation.

Just realize that we as humans have all fallen short. We have all sinned and Jesus died for your sins. Repent of your sins and ask him in your heart and live a new life for him.

Answer 7

Dude, God can cure ANYTHING you just have to be faithful to him and trust that he can do it. start reading your bible and take what you read into your heart. the only fear that you should have is fear of God, and that's not even real fear that's just major respect. become delieverd and try your best to live out the true meaning of being a christian so many people call themselves christians and don't live it. Jesus died for you brother, and he knows what you face. this life is hard and he is definitly willing to help you through it if you trust that he can and you are fatihful to the lifestyle he would want you to live. God bless you

Answer 8

A fear reaction to a specific situation can be identified as a phobia, and persons who suffer from phobias endeavor to avoid objects or situations which bring about fear reactions. It is possible that you have developed agoraphobia, the fear that keeps people at home. We seem to be hearing from more and more people who are suffering from panic attacks and great discomfort away from home. In the book "Happiness Is a Choice" by Frank Minirth, M.D. and Paul D. Meier, M.D., a number of suggestions are listed as helps to decrease anxiety:


Determine to obey God. God commands us not to be anxious (Philippians 4:5).

Pray. God promised Daniel He would answer and Daniel was not to fear (Philippians 4:6, Daniel 10:12).

Meditate on positive thoughts (Philippians 4:8). See also Psalm 34:4, 86:15; Isaiah 40:28-31; Proverbs 1:33; John 14:27.

Divert attention from self to others (Philippians 4:10, 2:3-4). As an individual gets his mind off his own problems by helping others, his anxiety also decreases.

Set a time limit on your worries. Probably ninety-eight percent of the things we are anxious about or worry about never happen. Learning to live one day at a time is an art that can be cultivated.


In his book, "Walking Through the Darkness," Neil Anderson suggests the following prayer for those troubled by fear:

"Dear Heavenly Father, You are the fortress, shield and strength of my life. I refuse to be intimidated by any fear object. I choose to sanctify Christ as the Lord of my life. You are the only omnipotent, omnipresent God. You have not given me a spirit of fear. By Your presence in my life I have power, love and a sound mind. Your power enables me to live a responsible life. Your presence in my life has made me a partaker of Your divine nature so I can love others as You love them. You are my sanctuary, and I ask You to protect my family ... Amen."

If your anxieties continue or increase, we suggest that you see a competent Christian counselor for additional help. For referral to Christian counselors in your area you might contact Focus on the Family, telephone [phone].

Answer 9

hi there,YES HE CAN!!!! the lord can deliver you from fear,anxiety and a whole lot more.i just recently been delivered from the same things.if you pray,have faith and trust in him,he can do ANYTHING and replace those things with so much joy,confidence happiness and peace you wont even recongnize yourself.pray and talk to him just like your talking to me.theres a scripture in the bible the lord does not give the spirit of fear,but of peace love and a sound mind.the devil is a LIAR and i will be praying for you.just trust in god.HE CAN DO IT ALL AND HE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU

Answer 10

Ask him, with faith, and you can have assurance if you trust him that he will help you.
In his way, in his time, just trust.

I was like that too - just do a little at a time - one thing at a time - then when you feel comfortable try something else that will be helpful. Challenge yourself a little but not too much. Be proud of any progress.