My girlfriend I just found out has been lying to me. She always says she loves me but she told me just now that she likes some other guy, but that other guy is my best friend. He doesnt like her though. So what should I do? I still love her but she doesnt love me. She loves my best friend who doesnt even love her, as a matter a fact he has a girlfriend. What do I do?
2006-11-22 04:24:35 · 28 answers · asked by skull loner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, you will find someone to love you as much as you love them. She is not worthy of your love. She will someday come to realize that she lost your love and it will be too late. Love hurts is a reality.
2006-11-22 04:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by motrouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your girlfriend is lying to you and she keeps doing that you are wasting you time, if she went back with you would have get with on a one on one basis and talk about your problems and figure out between the bothe of you if is worth saving. Apparently who ever she is tuck on does not like her and has not future plans to date her. If she even knows what good for her and knows he does not like her then she will back off, Tell you girlfriend that you love her very much and you will do whatever it takes to make the relationship work if she is willing to give it another shot. If she does not love you and won't continue to see you anymore then you should move on and find someone that will treat you better and give you the attention you are looking for. If she loves you enough to come back then she if not then you know what you have to do.
2006-11-22 12:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you might still love her bur your big problem isnt her it needs to be your bestfriend.Trust me he might say that he doesnt have feelings for her but she is not just loving someone that doesnt feel the same. What has your bestfriend done to get her attention in such a way that she falls out of love with you? You need to investigate a little more. She is not going to love you one day and then the next she loves you friend. I would investigate a little more and then I would worry about my feelings. You are being played and you dont realize it. Think about it. Do you really think that your friend is just going to come out and say "Dude I love your girl" It doesnt work that way sorry to tell you. Investigate and I hope that things work out for you.
2006-11-22 12:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by me2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up with her. If she doesnt love you, why be with her? And if she likes your best freind, thats not cool either, regardless of how he feels. The fact that she told you is good though but, you still don't need to be with someone who doesnt appreciate you and love you like you love them.
2006-11-22 12:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she told you that she in love with this other person? And if the anwser to that is yes then you need you move on because you can not make someone love you.And when you are in a one sided love it is hell. Not only that there is more than one way to cheat their is sex and then their is cheating of the heart . Myself I think cheating of the heart is really harder to get over. But if the anwser was no the you to talk to your girl and say I have heard that you love my best friend and that you don't love me anymore. Tell her please don't lie even if it going to hurt because you can't live a lie.Then if she says no I don't love him talk her out to a nice place and in joy your time with each other. I wish you the best I hope it work out for you
2006-11-22 12:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
im really sorry for u..
i think u should get away from her as fast as possible before she will hurt u even more..and it might not be a comfort for u right now but u can be really happy that your best friend doesnt agree with her feelings.be happy for this fact that u have a friend like that.
good luck
2006-11-22 12:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by starlight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to put anymore into a relationship you are not going to get out of it. And besides if tomorrow she changes her mind and likes you again, you will never be able to trust or believe her if she tells you she loves you.
And by the way, if someone loves you, you can tell every time you see them, every time they look at you!
2006-11-22 12:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer is marry her bestfriend I married my ex's best friend and we have been married for almost 6 years now. Honestly she is just a waist of your time if she doesnt love you and you truely love her. Find someone new and share your love with her@!
2006-11-22 12:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by missyjudys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just go ahead and get out of that trifecta asap.. Obviously there is no honesty going on at all and if thats what they want to do then they all deserve each other.. Good thing come to those who wait, and it all comea around full cicle..
good luck
2006-11-22 12:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by cterry120 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says she has been lying to you? It's far more possible that she fell OUT of love with you.
Let her go--if she's willing to sacrifice your elationship for a fling, she's not worth having as a girlfriend.
2006-11-22 12:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋